Oh god listen to you guys, you're the saddest bunch of AFCs on this forum. The fact you're making an issue out of it may prove that you really AREN'T anything more than an AFC.

Your height is irrelevant - if a 3ft dude in a wheelchair can get laid (David Ds friend) then stop whining like a bunch of schoolgirls. It's sickening.

Have a cup of concrete and harden up, darlings.

Two words.

Neil Strauss.

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Nothing in pick up applies to all women. There's no such thing as rejection... they're just playing hard to get.

The physical "disabled" people that do this, are really lacking confidence and being secure in their looks and who they are.

Its easy to say "get over it" or "man up". Its another thing to actually "get over it". You can't just blow off how society tells girls to date guys that are taller than they. That alone makes shorter guys fight an uphill battle. As most girls are looking at the taller guys that are around them. Plus it looks pretty odd to see a girl noticeably taller than the guy they are with.

Im 5ft11. And I think there is nothing sexier than a girl who is the same height or just taller than me in heels.....so funny cos no other guys like the tall chicks and I dont give a fuck! I love long legs....

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Take your Ops.

Whine whine whine. They're only going to make an issue out of it if you see it as one: all but one of my ex girlfriends was taller than me or the same height (I'm 5'8/5'9 without my boots).

If you're 5'4 and feel like a small person, girls will SEE you as a small person. You can't change your height - so accept and embrace it.

Here's a tip: if you act like you're 6'5, you'll be remembered as such. Once you have triggered attraction, all of their preconceived ideas about what society says will vanish entirely. I know from experience. Stop comparing yourself to others and stop making excuses as to why you can't succeed.

When I see a shorter guy with a taller girl I think, well done man, you have this shit down!

today in class I saw this girl, she looked like pretty nice, had nice legs and wow i wudnt mind her. No guy was talking to her and I would have approached /opened her but when she stood up from her seat and we got to floor level, she was an inch or 2 higher than me.

Fuck... I actually still have attraction for her even tho she is taller than me because of her body. her face wasnt that nice but i wudnt mind getting a bj from her lol.

I did not approach her because my mind came up with a reason and it was that she was too tall... This afc shit sucks and my mindset is screwed.

This is what I think:
2 guys, identical twins... but one is taller one is shorter than the girl
In order for the short one to get the girl he would need really good game compared to his brother. like maybe 30-50 percent better game than his brother to win her over (if they both had decent game).

So this is why guys who are taller have the advantage.
Sure short guy can get a taller girl but hes got to get his shit together.
Also if you are short but have good looks, you have a higher chance n dont need as much game compared to an ugly guy short height.



If I cant even close a girl shorter than me, i obviously dont have enough game for a girl taller than me... this is why im an afc. Maybe this is why i dont even think about dating girls taller than me.

Maybe we shud be thinking, why worry about girls taller than us when there is more than enough girls that we can ever meet with acceptable height. But there are ocassion where you just wished u were tall enough lol like today in my class (maybe only for afcs)

You stop growing until 21 and rarely, 24. So expect to hit 5'8".

Start bodybuilding, get some width. Taller isn't just taller, taller is BIGGER. More width makes you look bigger.

I have no idea why so many people out there don't body build. First, it boosts your confidence tremendously, you get that alpha male LOOK and barely any guys will mess with you, etc.

Having great game means been really good on the "primitive level" such as body language, posture, etc. Why not spend the time and effort to make every aspect of the primitive level top-notch? So besides dressing well, walking with your chest out, some muscles and modern hairstyle work as well.

Fact: taller guys are naturally more attractive.
Fact: 95% of the guys have shit game
Fact: you're in the 5% catagory
Fact: I like power rangers
Fact: You can have alot of good qualities, don't compare to Tom Cruise though, he's the master of dominance and he looks taller on screen because of his appearance.

It shouldn't be a big deal, girls prefer taller guys, but that doesn't matter they can't feel attracted to shorter guys. I also can't imagine you hitting on tall girls anyway.

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Optimistic?

I'm not that tall either and it does bother me at times. But I like to think a good set of elevator shoes and a fuck load of confidence can compensate that. And honestly, if you are charming and funny no girl will shoot you down and tell you "your'e too short for me, buddy". She may not want to hook up with you, but there are billions of reasons why a girl woudn't.
I like to think about it this way: Your average guy gets, say, 30 chances to hook up with a girl and a guy with good game a 100 (probably an understatement). If we said that a short guy gets 20 % less chances for a hook up you are still well above average with good game.

Is height an important factor for attraction? Undoubtly yes. But there are so many factors that most people will fall short (haha) in one or the other.

Just wanted to add to the thread that yes, you can still grow until you are 20-22. Not that it matters really.

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AFC from hell

Alot of girls have said that they prefer taller men, guess thats something your gonna have to accept, but it certainly isnt a deal breaker though since alot have been with or go out with same height or smaller men!

They just have to take it into consideration - i.e last week a girl said it was a refreshing change to not have to worry about if she should wear high heels around me, since even in her tallest heals I am still taller than her (I am 6'4).

But seriously I wouldnt worry about it guys everyone is under a foot tall when your horizontal and if your small it gives the optical illusion of having a huge cock! .. unless you have a micro penis too... then yeah, you are fucked

A good quote Mike Long told me, and he said it to his wife (she's taller than him) was this:

"We're all the same height lying down"

If a girl mentions my height I'l actually say that to them.


Also what women say they want is different from what they actually want/go for. I'm not saying women actually want small guys, but the fact is women don't get/go for their "ideal guy"