I'll make this short.

I met an HB11, shes smokin hot and a complete socialite, last May. We hung out a few times, and about a month and a half into our "hanging outs" we became gf/bf, like official. She dated a pretty well known MLB baseball player for 5 years until March, they broke up because he cheated on her on the road. I never asked if she wanted to be official, it just happened.

Until about the end of August, when me, her, my friend, and his gf made plans to go to the lakehouse, and I told her there was a possibility that my parents were going to be there.

We had sex already prior to all this, were very comfortable with each other until 2 days before we were supposed to go to the lake house

" I dont know if I want a boyfriend"

Her logic was she got out of a 5 yr relationship where he cheated on her on the road and she found out, bad taste in her mouth

She hit me with that. Whatever, kind of a surprise but girls are complicated.

I left town for a month and we continued texting throughout the whole time. I called her beautiful and shit in the text messages, she said she misses me and i her and all that.

She called me to meet her at the bar last week, I did and it was like we were still together,making out and all that. There was alcohol involved of course.

Now, I asked her to hang out in a couple, and she agreed, but she says "just as friends."


And a week ago I left her a voice mail saying how much I missed her that shes really special to me blah blah blah if she wants to let me down easy she doesnt gotta text/call me again, no hard feelings. She texted 2 days later.


Soooo....anyone have any ideas whats goin on with this chick? Ideas on how I should handle this? Bring up other girls I banged when we hang out? What?

Input appreciated,

Cheers

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