Ok so I met this girl at a TKD club and she is 2 years older than me. We've been going there for 1 month until she had to quit due to school. Our relationship there was alright and we did a litle bit of flirting and touching but nothing to the point where we saw each other as friends or possible lovers (maybe left some room for this in the future). Anyways, given that situation, it was not socially correct to have asked her out and whatnot during the time we were both in TKD. Although I always (well... a lot) see her staring at me with that "I want to fuck you" look. Or that "He's so handsome" stare". Those virgin looking eyes. So there is definetly some form of attraction.
Basically before she quit I teased her about how if her team loses the game, she has to buy me dinner, etc etc. Anyways she ended up winning and it kind of ended from there. She left the TDK club and we haven't really been in contact for about 3 weeks. I didn't really have much interest in continuing to game this girl but something ticked after 3 weeks and I said to myself "oh what the heck, let's give it a go".
So my text message after 3 weeks went something like this. I went alittle simple and casual, since it has been awhile since we talked.
"Hi, you remember me? You go to xyz university right?"
her - Yes I remember you, I dont go to xyz
"Ah I see.. well you still have to buy me that dinner
"
And then I noticed how she took longer to reply to this, for whatever reason it may be
her - When should I buy you dinner?
"Are you busy on the weekend? I will probably call you then"
her - I have work on the weekend
"Friday?"
I should probably have just told her I'd message her later on a date but yea... lol
her - I'll call you when I get my paycheck
^wtf? It's not like I actually intend for her to pay rofl. But in our culture, it's usually the older person who pays, so this is why you might be wondering, wtf she's gona pay?
Anyways, I just stopped there and ended it.
So basically, when I teased her about still having to buy me dinner, she hesitated in replying and actually, technically, invited me for dinner. She could have easily just been like "lol" and ignored the whole thing or change topics... right??
Anyways, what's your whole intake on this. I want to hear your guy's opinions
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