So I was at this party last night and I found myself at a party talking to a guy and 2 girls, one I rather liked. So I used a bit of the mystery method, I talked a lot to the guy and the other girl, trying not to pay attention to my target and giving her short general responses when she spoke. Party looked like it was dying down a bit so I said I was going to get going, before I left I turned to my target and said, 'Hey I didnt really get to talk to you much, give me your number and we will carry on this conversation later', she then asked if I had facebook and I said yes, give me your full name and I will add you, and then we parted.

Not long after getting home, I saw a friend request saying she had found my facebook by pure 'coincidence. I replied making a joke saying 'Haha coincidence? Thats ok as long as youre not a stalker' .... Im not sure if that joke was good or bad....

Anyways, Where do I go from here?

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I am in the same situation, yesterday night i got a girls email

I third that. Got a number at a bar/club and need to follow up today. Didn't really have a chance to game much, but I was the life of the party and original about getting her number.

Any advice welcome. Also, I'm calling since texting seems to shy (wouldn't fit me anyway). So, I could use some advice on the voicemail. Doubt she'll pick up an unknown number.

Same for me. Got a number today, wondering what I should do about calling her. We have a tentative date but I for sure want to call and solidify everything...

Any help is appreciated.

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Same with me, I wrote a field report on it, No love for MiMs :\

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if you like her, i would call. txting is a waste of time. i just asked a girl and she told me the same thing.

if the convo is going good, have some activity planned to invite her to. but nothing that is too much commitment.

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I hate this part....bump for OP!