Title explains enough, but here's the deal. I live in a town about 45min with the bus, 30min with car from the city where we go out and where it's best to sarge. I've had my experience with good and bad pickups and I'm not really worried about my game anymore, but closing the deal still is hard. How would or do you guys take girls home, long distance? Taking the car to the city would be an option but finding a decent affordable parkingspace is horrible.

Has anyone had any experience with taking girls on a long ride home? I usually just get contact info and try to set up a second date, but I want to see if there's a way. Every idea or theory is welcome, but experience would be much more appreciated. Let me hear some of the (succesfull) stories.

Thanks guys

~Trotyl

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Why don't you set up a date with the girl you meet and do the whole "I will provide the movie and you provide the movie theater (her house)" either by the end of the date and go to her house to watch the movie or get the movie and make a second date to watch the movie at her place.

Cheers mate

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I actually have a lot of experience in this. I live about an hour or more away from the areas I usually meet women. Personally I've found it's best to get her to take you to hers. Planting the seeds a bit early is kind of important in this method though. For instance, if you're speaking to a girl at a bar make the conversation quickly go into you not being from the direct area before you escalate sexually, you'll find that if she knows that situation early on then it's much easier to throw in a quick "lets go back to yours" during a moment of intensity. As for dates and such, let her know your situation early on and give her one hell of a night that she doesn't want to end and that good old invite into hers isn't too far off. The fact is that if a woman wants to be with you it's all up to where you lead it.

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"All the dragons in our lives are perhaps princesses expecting us to be handsome and brave, all the terrifying things are perhaps nothing but helpless things waiting for us to help them." Rilke

Good stuff guys, I'll definitly try both out. Planting the seed early seems like a great way, letting her know you don't live close before she's getting something. The girl doesn't always live in the city though, about 80% of the girls I meet have to take the bus home ( not my direction ofc). Would it be easier to travel with them instead of them traveling with you, I mean have you gone home with girls that live about an hour away from the place you went out?

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It depends a lot on your style of game. However, i will say this: if you're traveling more than 15 minutes away to go to a woman's house that you just met that night it's important to be able to hold the mood along the journey. SNLs can be fickle if a moment of doubt is allowed to arise. Probably two ways to do this: being able to hold a good conversation with the obvious kino works better for elongating the interaction if time is a factor; if you are the kind of guy who plays it completely sexual you're relying on impulsion's to close, this is fantastic for quick lays but if it comes down to a bit of a break from that go go go mentality to one of waiting the mood can go down along with the ride. So are you a quick witted talky kind of guy with good sexual kino or are you more of a straight up sexual type?

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"All the dragons in our lives are perhaps princesses expecting us to be handsome and brave, all the terrifying things are perhaps nothing but helpless things waiting for us to help them." Rilke

I'd put myself in the first group, talk and sexual kino. I've been using a lot of Gambler's stuff together with the occasional routine if I run out of things to say. I've been reading 60s ebook lately and going to try his stuff out this weekend.
I think building a strong connection together with enough sexual escalation would make her want me and still have the feeling she already knows me longer than just one night.

Could you share one of your succes stories with me? You won't have to go into full detail, but some of the key points in your game would be appreciated. I really want to master this thing.

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