Suppose you had a date and it went great. You did all the right things. Leaned back. Did the kiss test. Got some nice making out and lots of smiles and laughs on her end. Busted her balls. Stole her frame. Used lots of cocky comedy. Gave some mixed signals along the way..was fun and unpredicatable. Date was Sat. All we did was walk around an outside shopping center, went to a resturant, and only had water. (Get this: I casually just said as we were walking. I'm thirsty. Lets go get something to drink. We walked in, ordered 2 waters, continued the conversation over water on a lovely summer day. Love it.) When would be a good day to call? I considered Monday. What do you guys think? I'd love to hear different perspectives on this one.

Well if she's comfortable with you probably 2 days and tell her you want to do something again sometime next week.

I find anything more than 2 days she'll forget you.. anything less she'll think you're coming on to strong. Just from my personal experience anyways.

the wait 2 days thing kills ya from my exp. they auto think 3 day wait is the ususall. typical guy goes into their head. now, give her a call the next day see whats up. make it seem like ur busy and say u'll hit her up when u have free time again. just make sure u are cocky and funny. leave her laughin and cut her off since ur manager or supervisor is coming. that always works like a charm for me anyway.

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probably cut her off because you got something else to do instead, show that you're alpha rather than someone else having power over you

Look, i have learn that curiosity is an incredible power if you used it correctly.
What I do is the next: After 1 day, I send her a message teasing her for something you tease previously in the 1st date and then saying "I find a great nickname for you" but dont tell her. If she keeps sending you messages, you can call her the next day, if not, wait two days.
Just some thoughts, everything is adaptable.

mmm ice.. I like the sound of that I might try it out next time thanks

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I also like what you say Ice. Simple easy technique. Look forward to trying that one.

My rule of thumb has always been, A FULL 48 hours since the last time you saw her.

Sometimes, longer. In L.A. you break the rule, you lose the fish. and you get thrown into the psycho stalker column.

If she calls you before then, make her come to you or meet you on your turf, do not go to her! Even if she says she is naked in her apt. (seeing if you are pussywhipped right out of the gate). If you break this rule and booty call. It is probably your last or she wants a relationship.

I agree Ice, its okay to call, just make sure she thinks its a call of general interest. To let her know she's been on your mind. That is definatly a response she will get.

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You like her? (I'm gonna assume yes)
She like you? (I'm gonna assume yes)

The time to "play" is over.
You're fine. Just call the girl.

Good luck man!

I agree with Ice, I love the idea of a teaser, it keeps her coming back again and again...also, I think the idea, as mentioned above, of having her come to you on your terms is brilliant.... Don't overthink it though, and really just do what feels right... You've got her man, don't lose it over petty shit like waiting periods

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If you met her on Friday or Saturay night, call her on Sunday around dinner time (less than 48 hours have passed), she'll be at home without plans for the next week. She'll remember your call when she goes to sleep, and also on Monday morning.

When I take the phone, I say "I'll call you, ok?" So they will keep waiting for 48 hours, and then you call.

Don't call her when at shopping times or working hours, call her at night or lunch time when she has time and may be alone.

That's what I do.

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The very next day. This stupid wait period is total non-sense.

If you liked her, why would you wait 2 days for her to meet 10 other guys?

All the other guys she meets do the ridiculous wait thing. Do you wanna be
like every other guy? Obviously not. You should have called her the very next day.[/b]

yea, but i like to call her right after so the fire doesn't die, it happened to me several times. the national trick is to wait two or three days, then everyone wanted to be different and started waiting four or more days. do whatever is different if the girl is a 8 or above...

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Every scenario has its own unique set of circumstances. Based on your post it seems that you have built sufficient rapport with this female.

However, you are communicating a deep desire not to "fuck this up." Honestly, she should be one of the many girls that you are calling up during your regular phone rotation. As Mystery said, you won't feel too invested into a conversation if you know you have another 5 calls to make.

Having said this, I would recommend preparing for the conversation. Just as we have canned openers we should have prepared topics for our phone conversations.

Firstly, be sure you are busy when you call her. If you want to call her and you're not busy, make sure you find something moderately engrossing to do.

Secondly, you do not have to call her to make alternate plans. Having said this always end the phone call with an intent to speak later. "Alrighty, <name> we'll talk again [this week, on Thursday]."

Make a casual reference to something you have spoken about previously and how it reminded you of her. If you're truly in the comfort stage (does she comply when you request it?) then you should let her know that she's on your mind more often than you find comfortable.

Aside from the plethora of advice others will give you on this site just remember to add in a false time constraint.