I met this HB8 when I used to work at a grocery store about a year ago. At the time she had a BF, and ended up getting pregnant. I guess he cheated on her while she was pregnant and ended up leaving her a month before she had the baby. About 2 month ago, we started texting eachother, and we ended up going out for about a month and I had almost F closed on the 4th date after a night at the beach. I took a big step in the relationship, and took her and her son out for the day. Had a great time till the end of the night when her ex saw us together. When I got home (i live about 30min away from her.) I got a call from her cell phone and it was her ex telling me he wanted to kick my ass haha. She called me from her house phone and told me that he went over to her house and took her phone. The next night she called me and said that she had a long talk with him and he said that he would "take her back". 2 days later she calls me and says "I'm not ready for a relationship", so we break up. One week later she tells me she's sorry and she misses me and she regrets leaving me. I pushed her off for 3 days, then told her I was willing to try again. Of course I wasn't going to be the same person at first after what happened, and don't think that's what she expected. The next day she calls me and says "I'm a girl who needs alot of attention, and you not giving that to me makes me not want to try anymore.", so we break up again. It's been about a week since and she sent me a text saying she had a day off on Saturday and wanted to do something. I told her I would take her out. What I'm trying to figure is what the chick really wants??? I was so close to the F close I could smell it. Then all this shit happened out of no where. I'm trying to avoid the friend zone, but I don't think I'm doing a good job by taking her out so soon.

You will crush this girl if u leave after the f close... So I wouldn say either commit to a serious relationship with her or move on