I didn't see a section for text game so I figured I would post my remark here.

This is a text that I'm thinking about sending a girl I met a few days ago. What does everyone think? What should or shouldn't I change? Any tips .... all comments and opinions are welcome.

I should also note, at the end of our conversation she suggested I call or text her to meet for drinks.

P.S. This girl is Eastern European.

i would suggest call her... i dont like using "sms" cause you cant tell how they are feeling they could be pmsing and you just pissed them off with your text...

this is from a post of mine that i posted earlier this week on phone game..

i would start talking about whatever and then right at the end say something like i gotta go cause im picking up my friend from the train station adn shes scared of the dark so i gotta go but it was really nice talking to you.. we should do it again some time..

say you seem like a cool person you definatly seem like the kinda person i like to hang around..

i personally dont say "you should come" or anything like that cause its telling her what to do i say "you seem like someone that i hang out with"

romA´s RULES OF PHONE GAME

1. dont ever make a date on the first call
(unless it was her suggestion)
2. always use the first call just to chat
(i never make plans with her)
3. mention that she is a cool person and that shes someone yyou normally hang out with.
4. use time restraints ALOT!
5. DONT TEXT MSG!! I REPEAT DO NOT TEXT MSG especially if its the day after ALWAYS CALL (unless she starts texting you first)

those are the essentials!

hope this helped, enjoy and good luck

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any man can sweep a woman off her feet... he just needs the right broom - alex hitchens

Should I call her and tell her

"Hey, Janice, It was nice meeting you a few days ago. Listen, I don't know what your doing tonight but I'm going to get a few drinks, if you want to tag along that would be cool. So just call me back and I will talk to you later"

I'm sure I'll get her voice mail and I would need to leave a voice mail message. The statement above would be my message.

What are your thoughts and opinions.

NOOOOOOOOOO never leave a voice mail unless its cause your cancelling a date...
and even then avoid it!

it shows that your needy... (remember you are a high quality male you have better things to do, you are busy! )

in the first phone call talk about intrests funny storyies ... you can dhv a little..
in the second or third call say something like "you seem like the kind of chick id hang out with.." later on say "me and my friends are going out to a bar you should tag along.." or something along those lines... make sure she knows theres gonna be other people there it takes the stress away and makes her feel comfortable

hope this answered your question

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any man can sweep a woman off her feet... he just needs the right broom - alex hitchens

I have to disagree. She said to call or text her. What am I suppose to do? Should I call or text this girl? What's so wrong with leaving a voice mail. If she dosent get back to me, then I simply move on ......

I don't think there's anything wrong with leaving a voicemail if you're already in some sort of relationship with this person. She has your number, if you call and she doesn't answer, hang up. She will see that you called and if she is interested, will call you back.

fuck man, who cares its just a girl right?

Give her a text! see what shes up to! incorporate romAs game into the txt or phone convo if you want to, use the first 5 mins to be interesting, just chat away. she should ask you what your plans are for tonite, its just polite. Then you can use you line, im going to a bar with some friends, you can tag along if you want.

Done - bing bang boom.

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Take your Ops.

It's been my expierence even if she is interested she will still get back to me (or men in general) with a text message.