long story short....got num.. texted for 5 days... talked on the phone first time tonight...
talked for 2 hours.. but already set up a date out...

she tells me initially not lookin for anything serious...then tells me today she is sorta seein someone and its now serious.. i say.. i dont really care.... doesnt affect me.... so we can still hang out... she says.. ok kewl.. date changes from a venue to my place...fine.

on the phone conversation she tells me shes a real prude but shes open minded like she thoguht shed hate this guy but she likes him now...and shes used to guys putting moves on her and she doesnt want any moves put on her when shes over tomorrow...

im pretty pro with first dates in my place. but i usually dont talk to anyone that long before hand esp about expectations. all i say is no expectations ..just have fun.. whatever happens happens. but she seem insistent on not wanting to make ou or anything..... i sorta believe her just not really sure how to play it. i dont wanna come off as all the other guys that normally try shit.... maybe i should just NOT touch her and do ev thing else..

we've talked about sex, role played and are pretty comfortable with each other.. so normally id just escalate as normal.. but bit of a curve when she says specifically.. i dont want u you to do what most guys do an touch my hand then my shoulder then try and kiss me......etc.... i move really slowly...blah blah...


if she didnt have this "bf" then i would just go for it but im not sure if shes being more reserved because of that..... any ideas...?


if any, gotta know before tomorrow.

thx regardless.

laters.

hmm, this sounds like either a shit test, or shes trying to get you jealous.


But sorry mate, usually if a girl tells you shit about her boyfirend, it means she LJBF'nd your ass.
If shes trying to rile you up and get you jealous, i say ignore it, dont touch her or come on to her at your house, get another girl and freeze her out
cheers

she doesnt talk about him. and all she said abou it was 'i wa dsting around and this jus got more serious this week'

still wants to come over... for first date.
still really flirty w me. shes given me tests like this before too. n after passing she gets more amped .
keeps sayin things like 'do u think im pretty?' 'u always poke fun of me for things i like... why do u even wanna hang out w me!' when u said i have lots friends gfs and ex's that lke all tje same shit n tryjng someone diff..she said'o good so im an experiment?! lol' and i said "yep and i to u. ur still investing time too.


shes jus really untrusting of guys.... i think

Shit like ''Do you think im pretty'' and ''why dont want u hang out with me'' are cries for attention, she seems crazy needy. I say leave her be :/

But if your hellbent on getting with her, sure pull your routine and make sure to build comfort with her