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Here's my story:
We've been seeing each other while she was still dating her bf. She was constantly texting me and I just went along and initiate the meet-ups. We were getting pretty close physically, even tho she was a virgin and comes from a strict family. The closer I got to having sex, the less she texted. And after we had sex, very very rarely i'd get some useless text from her. I've been trying to meet-up since sex we had for another 2-3 weeks(asked her approximately 4 times) and always got refused, but not directly.
Anyways this one day I had enough and wrote a huge text saying how I always ask her to meet up and she never has time and that i understand what's going on and i'll drop w/e i'm doing.
Then I get even more AFC, and come to her house with intention to talk to her, because I can't express my feelings in texts. So I told her how I feel and my expectations and what she can expect from me and got LJBF reply. I don't believe in friends b/s after being physically close to the girl and I said that. Anyways, I don't remember where conversation drifted but we ended up chilling for 3 hours and it got pretty sexual touching-wise. We agreed to meet up in a few days.
Now, I get a text from her asking weather we still gonna meet up that day as friends in a suggestive way.
What do I do? I was originally just having fun with this girl, but got very emotionally attached to her. I do wanna be with her.
Well, anyways, tell me what you think, give me some advice, or just share stories. Anything that could somehow help me.
Buyers remorse
You chased the girl
Too emotionally attached
Just some of the things you did wrong. She had a bf and you fucked her. How would you think that'd make her feel. "I'm a slut cheating hore who cannot commit to a relationship" is probably what shes thinking. Just let it go, you lost it already. You chased her and even 'stalked' her. Maybe she even felt pressured to have sex with you, I don't know. But it's clear that this will go nowhere with your current "game". Your best chance is to tell her that it was nice meeting her and drop it. Best comes to worst, she will miss you and want you. Attraction is at it's highest when you are about to lose someone. SHOW A WILLINGNESS TO WALK AWAY MAN. You are being too much of a nice guy. I know it sounds hard "why would I walk away from the girl when I have a chance to lose her like that?". You have a higher chance losing her doing the same shit you're doing right now, so listen to my advice. Personally, I hate when girls get too attached to me too early on and it creeps me the fuck out. And I'm a guy saying this. I like girls chasing me but not to the point where it's so early on and so much. Hope this helped.