hey guys. last night i was at a huge gathering. through the night i was just chating to this lass and she took my number. bad move that she took mine i know but she dashed off before i could get her number but it doesn't matter cos i saw her at the club again later that night. i still didnt number close :S

when i saw her again in the bar i said something to her and she had some major bitch shielding going on so i just walked away. after half an hour i started chatting to her mate. i got a few negs onto the other lass which was ok. i noticed that she actually wanted to be with me she was wanting me to dance. i didn't dance tho. last night was just a time to test the feild and notice attitude changes towards things i did.

im pretty drunk at this stage. i just got chatting to the lass and she showed me a couple of IOI's she was asking me all sorts of stuff. but with me i didn't do enuf. i was quite drunk so forgot quite alot of what i wanted to do in a routine so kino was out the window and all the major aspects were aswell. the thing that i found mostly hard to do was the escalation part. and because i didnt do it she instantly lost interest after about half an hour. was weird. at the same time it's good that i can now see these things.

my question is how do i escalate after the opener and once the comfort zone is there? i couldn't even number close cos she gave me the whole "im taking a break from seeing men" speech. we all know if i played it right she wouldn't be saying that at all.

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"RON WHERE ARE YOU?"
"IM IN A GLASS BOX OF EMOTION!!"

actually, maybe it wasnt much of a fail. she just text me seeing how i am. fair enuf. first attempt sucess.

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"RON WHERE ARE YOU?"
"IM IN A GLASS BOX OF EMOTION!!"

If she just texted you, its not a fail, she just put in the effort ) YEHHH BUDDY

yer think i went on too strong. errrm, yer, she hasnt text back cos i asked if she wanted tog o out sometime. she may reply sometime in the future. but yer this was just to see how the boat floats. i now need to get a routine together and work on it.

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"RON WHERE ARE YOU?"
"IM IN A GLASS BOX OF EMOTION!!"

haha been there before my friend, the key is to not get drunk, by all means drink but dont get to the point where you forget all the shit. Having a few drinks can loosen you up and get you in a talkative state but dont go past the line (easily done lol)

dam bro kino escalation is usually just a must do like crack a joke lightly hit her shoulder ya know just like you would mess around with a homie or something it goes along way when you show you see them as an equal and not on a pedestal

oright guys cheers for the advice.

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"RON WHERE ARE YOU?"
"IM IN A GLASS BOX OF EMOTION!!"