ok so i was round my mates today, and i got hungry so we decided to go to get some food, we walked past a chip shop and i decided i wanted some..

so we went inside and there was a girl there.. i picked out a flower in her hair and i was going to open on that but it was quite busy so i couldnt really...

Any ideas on what i could say to her if i go in again and she hasnt got it in this time?

I was thinking of going again sometime hoping its not busy, although college/school has just started again so i dunno when she'll be working and i dont know what the best opener would be to use...

Any suggestions??

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There's a million canned opener online you can use.

But,just use a situational opener as you were going to do with the flower.

Best approach to a girl working in shop,etc. is to "BANTER".

Play with her!!!

Dont come off as that serious-deep guy,but lighten the mood.

Ask her for a free chip(with a sly & playful smile on face).

For example:

You:"Hey,I wann try a chip.And if it tastes bad,Im gonna really punish you".

The key is to have a smile and be confident so she doesnt think you're a psycho(lol).

If you suffer from severe AA,a banterish approach like that would come off wrongly.

She has the flower in hair:

You:"Hey,I thought flower in hair was out-of style.Put it in my hair let me see how cool it is".If my friends tell me it looks bad,Im gonna punish you(lol)".

But I bet your #1 fear is that ppl will be around,you dont want them to notice,and you might get rejected.

Well think about it like this:the other ppl at the chip shop would assume that yall already know each other,so they wont be staring,hoping you fuck up so they can laugh.

Whatever opening you chose,make sure it's fun,playful and loud.

Dont say it in her ears nor wait until she's in a corner to sneak up on her and deliver opener in a quiet tone!!

Run your opener with a loud "I dont give a damn" voice.

Personally,I'd remove the flower from her hair as Im delivering opener[I've done this many times by removing their hats,,shades,etc.]

You must have balls!!!

Another interesting-psycolgical note:Ppl working in those places(shops,service industry,etc.)automatically has less value(according to society),so they're less likely to reject you.

1 exception is the female bartender.

I've exploited this realization many times to this day,knowing that the girl behind the shop's counter would not reject me because her work alone puts her in a less valuable position[according to society].

So stop worrying about what to say and just have fun.

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