Met a girl last year online through a lyricist website. We exchanged ideas etc and she added me on fb. A year went by and I see her as I'm driving my car and I get talking to her that evening. (I am 28 she is Eighteen)

We became good friends on fb and it's obvious to her that I like her a lot and to me I know she likes me but maybe cause i'm older. She's confusing!

I've txt a few times and spoken to her on the phone once which was weird!

In total i've asked her out 6 times LOL but i'm starting to lose interest in chasing her if she's never gonna meet me in real life.

She bangs on fb about how 'there's no us if there is no trust' and 'if you want her you gotta fight for her"....She also writes songs about me.. latest one was "...you don't love me for me / do you even know my middle name" etc etc (I do it's Rose)

Thing is I don't want to be asking all boring questions over facebook I wanna take it real world I have charm n stuff that don't come across on fb.

Maybe it's just the age gap. I dunno. She's a teen I'm a man.

Last week I had enough and posted a status saying that it's her move now, i can't wait forever etc etc and I would have to delete her to forget about her. So I did and it's been a week without checking her profile. But she still send me songs to review wtf and writes on ppls walls so I can see.

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I wanted to delete her to see if she really was interested in me that she'd come back so I hope she does. But if she doesn't should I contact her again and take it slow?

Facebook is such a fuck up. 6 months i've wasted tying to meet her. Only ever seen her 3/4 times on the road. She's too special to let go. She's a virgin and she lost her father too so she's kinda messed up too. But I want her as if it's destiny!

Any ideas guys?
Much appriciated in advance

Well seems like she likes you, but man I know what you're going through. I hate facebook and that crap, girls behind their computer never wanting to go on dates etc. Is there any place you guys both go? i.e. certain clubs or bars? Don't ask her over but tell her you're going to be at X at Y time...maybe this way she'll just 'check it out' with some friends and just game her there.
Also, since she sends you songs, why don't you tell her to sing it for you instead? Get a jam session going. If she still keeps being a stubborn ass just forget about it, there's probably more girls you like, just go for them. If you're smart you could make her notice you're hanging out with other girls aswell i.e. let other girls write your facebook page by communicating through fb instead of sms. Jealousy is a strong weapon

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Optimistic?

Tinytree, she's a teenager. These girls live on dreams. They always think about what "it should" be like when reality is different. She also sounds very easy to get primarily because she hasn't had any guys due to her age. You just have to treat her a bit nicer than you would treat a woman your age.

I already make the same thing, dude I was trying to get one girl who lives in another country.. 4 years ago, when I used to fall in love quickly..then she tell in the internet that she loves me and things like that, and I went to her city ( 8 hours travelling ) .It was different you know,because the girl show for me different fellings for what she used to tell me. And then I went to home without even kiss her.Then I started to think if it was good for me and how many time and money I waste only for her, and how I could waste to get more improvement for me ( and also girls =D ) Think about that ,maybe could help go to a pub and 'waste time and money for you '

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If doesn't change, doesn't get better

maybe a little of reassurance and convincing would help?

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