the reason i say do evrytin slowly its cause it shws control n also itl giv the illusion that u had sex 4 longer ...... ul probably bust ur 1st nut a minute into it ...... but dnt stp there keep puttin in work n afta bout anotha 10 / 15 mins ul bust ya 2nd nut ...... remember always get head afta sex nt b4 cuz if the girls gud at sukin ul end bustin 1 nut in her mouth and then u only gt 1 nut 2 fuk her with ...... u get wat am sayin? anytin else u wna knw jus msg me safe ...... remember always wear a jonny and giv her the pill jus in case ...... better safe then sorry .....

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Look rename... she's not gonna know! Really, what the worst that could happen? you could finish in 30 seconds, right? Well... guess what, if you're not a virgin but you have sex with someone new after it's been while, it's usually the same situation... you could finish way to fast!

If I were you however, if this subject would ever come up again, I would be honest about it and tell her the truth but only after you have sex with her! If you do it now it may lower your value not because you're a virgin (she obviously doesn't have a problem with that) but because you lied and you would come across as fake. After you have sex, that's another story, chances are she will be much more indulgent.

Oh and another thing... numbers don't mean a thing when it comes to sexual experience. You could have 10 different one night stands so you have sex 10 times in let's say... 3 years or you could have only one girlfriend for 3 years and have sex hundreds of times and experiment a lot more. I always liked the second option better.

Good luck!

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tell her the truth ??? he wnt need to ..... if he's a virgin he'll giv hm self away like a new driver ...... u always knw when there's a new driver infront of youu ........ and wat do you do ? wen a new drivers infront of you ........ u get annoyed and u tell em to get the fuck outa ya way ....... tell her the truth ....... he ain't planin on marrying her ...... he jus want the goodies she's gt to offer ...... and UNDERSTAND this women much ratha be fuked if that makes em CUM ......this gentle tender loving BS is for HOLLYWOOD ...... lol i dnt hw many times u gt layed but me personally evrytime i went in hard ....... no romance jus raw fukin and u knw wat i aint had any complaints .......

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You don't have a very healthy outlook towards women,woman love the "hollywood moment" Why.....? Because it makes them FEEL like a woman,the same reason you like fast cars or walking round with an HB10 on your arm,it makes you feel like a man.If your mindset is women only want to be fucked and thats it then your inner game is seriously maladapted,women will see through it their not stupid.Every woman you interact with in a relationship including a sexual one should feel you're the best boyfriend she has ever had bar none! with an inner game like that you aren't just faking it you ARE it.A true man, when you reach that point you can "pull" anyone you want its practically a superpower and you have reached mastery. Remember the adage "always leave them better than you found them".

bruv u carry on ....... i dnt knw wat typa girls u interact with but me personally dnt believe in that BS ....... its fed to us trough the media and ppl believe it ....... am into PUA for myself ....... i wna bin in and out ...... no long thing or else you risk getting emotionally involved .... wre human after all ....... as far my out look on women goes ......... i like women ....... i respect them........ i even trust some of them but at the end of the day what i want is most important ..... ur lookin 2 deep into it ...... u aint gna marry any of these women ......marriage material girls are totally different ...... i dnt care hw i leave em ..... u think mst women giv a fuk bout us ...... were the so called "loverble losers" ..... meaning women much ratha fuk a stuk up guy who's gna treat em wrng den us ...it aint my fault ...its supply and demand .... women fall 4 the wrng guy then am gna b the wrng guy ... i bet u b4 a women falls for sum1 like you ...she already has been with a couple of guys like me

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Both of you guys have very valid points. Why cant we have both? Girls solved to be swooped off their feet, and yes exactly like in the movies. And other times it's just the plain normal way(Our way).

@hmm12 I don't know if its just me but how you type is very irritating and very confusing to say the least.

its just slang language , i got used to writing like that so now i can't help it.

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Everyone who advices to tell the truth are flat out WRONG!

Guys it's very easy to give advice from aside when it's not actually your problem. I've been in the OP's situation many times.

It is true that he shouldn't have lied in the first place, but if he tells the truth here's what will happen:

The chick will either get mad at him or laugh at him thinking he's pathetic. In both situations his value will be nullified.

It goes without saying that the girl will tell all her friends what happened, further embarassing him.

This is a "heavy" lie. If he can't keep up with it, it will crumble all over him.

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Don't listen to F_I_X_E_R. It's easy to hide behind your lies when you've already been hiding. It's hard to come forward with the truth. Don't take the easy way out. You'll see heavier consequences down the road if you keep doing that.

I'll make a bet. Tell the truth. If you come out alright in the end, a better man who learned something, I win the bet. If, however, you completely regret telling the truth, if you think the "consequences" for telling the truth are too great and that you wish you would have lied instead, I'll resign from my position as a moderator of this forum.

if i meet a girl at the club and were going to have a one night stand the same night should i tell im a virgin? or should i go with it since its a girl i dont know and will most likely not see again

all you guys suggesting him to tell the truth ..... where have you lot been living ? some underground base or something ? he's a VIIIIIRRGIIIIIIIN at 19 ........ thats embarrassing ....... you just expect him to come out and say it ?? there's another term for what you lot are telling him to do ...... its called "social suicide" ..... honestly how did you lot get layed ??? .......... plzzzzzzz introduce me to these women ....... i aint no top PUA but i've had my fair share of women and i wouldn't suggest in any situation you tell a women your a virgin ....... it isn't sensible .....

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every single one of you guys make very valid points, but to be honest...i fear i've gone too far with the lie to come clean at this point.

But what i am scared of more is that if i do happen to come clean, then she will most likely tell her friends, and some of her friends are the people that i work with (she works next door to my workplace, which is how i met her). If i wanted these people to know the truth about me i would've told them, but i dont want them knowing about my sex life (or non-existent one at that lol). I guess this comes down to a self-esteem issue and most of you guys will tell me to "suck it up" but i dont want them knowing, and im sure she will tell at least one them as she is very good friends with her.

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NO! He shouldn't listen to you! Don't you see that I'm trying to preserve his dignity? If he tells the truth nothing good will come of it. And if he plays his cards wisely, he will never get caught, the whole thing will blow over and he'll know not to lie in the future.

And like hmm12 said, if he tells the truth he'll commit social suicide.

Don't give him kamikazi advice! Nothing beats the humiliation of deliberately telling a heavy lie and telling the truth later.

Let's look at this realistically. You are telling him to do this:

"Oh hi, *girl's name" remember when I told you that I slept with 3 girls?"

- "Yeah?"

"Well, yeah... I lied. I'm a virgin. You cool with that?"

- *girl goes insane*

Place yourself in the girls shoes. Can you take such a person seriously in the future? Won't you ask yourself the following questions:
How many times has he lied before?

Will he lie again?

Huh, good luck explaining yourself when she bombards you with questions and handling damage control mode. If she's a major member of his social circle... Well, he's pretty much screwed.

P.S - Chief - I have respect for you, you are a better PUA than me, but I'm confident that I know more about lies than you... If I'm wrong you can feel free to perma ban me from the forum!



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You bet your fu**ing ass she will! See? You answered your own question! As you said yourself, you're in too deep now.

Relax! Lying, just like pick up is an art... The good news is that if you are subtle about it, you'll get away with the lie, and eventually she'll forget about it and you'll learn your lesson. This the only safe way out of it.


Don't get me wrong people. I don't encourage lying, because it lies heavily on your conscience. This should only be done as a last resort , because you can't play the role of "Mr. Honest Abe" all the time. Тhere are times when you should be honest, but this scenario in particular just doesn't cut it...

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am waiting ...... come on ..... 1 of you guys tell him to be honest now .... i was right when i said it'll be a social suicide ..... good thing you aint listened to these friggin lover boys or what do girls call em ? hmmmm i think it was lovable losers , Lesson number 1 .... girls always talk, they wont keep a secret ..... thats why a word like gossip exist ..... lesson number 2 .... if your boys find out about you being a virgin they will laaaaaaaugh in your face ... they wudnt wnt to be associated with you ...... lesson number 3 .... don't listen to lovable losers ..... lesson number 4 ...... sometimes a good lie's better then the truth ....... lesson number 5 ..... there's nothing wrong with telling a lil lie if it preserves some honour ....

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