Do you masters of online pua choose "single"? I am divorced...would that build or lower attraction?
Seeking what?
Dating?
Long Term?
Friends?
Hang out? which is more successful?

finally is "not single/not looking" the mysterious pua way to go? or does that just make them clcik off your page?

I'd like the answer to those questions too. I'm no master. I put that I'm divorced, I wouldn't misrepresent that one.

I put that I'm seeking "dating" instead of "long-term relationship" because it's true and I'm not afraid of puting that out there. I've only had one woman tell me that she wasn't interested in meeting because I put "dating" and she is seeking a "long-term" relationship.

I wonder if putting "long-term" would be more comforting (for lack of a better word) to some women. Any opinions on that?

I am Seeking a
Woman
For
Hang Out

Do you drink?
Socially
Marital Status
Single
Profession
Student, Model, Actor
Smarts
Some college

So far none of this mentioned above has been a known conflict in my Online Sarging.

I've had many women ask "So what are you looking for on this site?"

And I'd look on their profile, see what theirs says and base your answer off what they have..
If yours doesn't match, say it has "Hang Out" while theirs has "Long-Term"
simply mention that it only lets you select one, and you're looking for "Opportunity. To see where being friends goes and if it's meant to happen, it will!"

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A strong man can do many things,

But the strongest knows he cannot do everything alone.

For me there are no positive associations to putting 'divorced' over 'single' - however..

I'm 34 and this is definitely not a plus online for the girls i look to date (23ish) but I think it is better (ie more effective) to be honest - sure I could lie, but the most important thing in my view is to be comfortable with who you are, and to show it

so i'd say fuck it - put divorced & be comfortable with that fact

also for me 'dating' is stronger than 'long term' - sure it may end up long term, but she would to have to prove that she is worthy of that status - through the medium of dating. If asked i would say that I am open to that, but in my mind be thinking 'sure but you would have to work for it' (and this is surely true, no matter what your stated goal, if you met someone absolutely fucking amazing, you telling me you wouldn't want to keep seeing them for as long as they stayed that way??!)

This is how it works in the real world, you don't say to someone you hardly know that you are looking for a LTR - why? because you'd scare them the f*ck off! Perhaps after a few dates, if this was your goal, you might broach this subject - this for me is the famous female 'where is this going?' or 'what is this?' speech

silvio