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so let me give you a quick story, i met this amazing girl, were very similar share same interests, blah blah blah, anyway we just recently hooked up, but it felt wrong because she wouldnt open up to me at all, and ive seen this and i just confronted her about it saying she should and asking her if she trust me, and she says she cant because shes been hurt in the past, and says it takes time, and with my alpha characteristic i cant stand this, i want an LTR and not a mistake for me to invest in further, i need some advice. halp guize.
Fender43
Well by you hooking up with her so early on, it already sends her signals that "wow am i going to get used and hurt again?"
To try and stop this thought process in her brain, take it slow. MAKE her trust you. Do not think about pussy right now if you really like this girl. Remember don't force her to do anything. Infact, you should be the one to say "I think this is going too far, let's stop". And who knows, by you saying that, she might want to keep going.
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