Confidence... Well as any mPUA would say. Approach any/all women you see. That, you must get in the habit of doing. Start off by opening with situational openers such as "Do you have the time". That can pretty much be used anywhere but just make sure there isnt a huge fuking clock tower right behind you You just need to start realizing that woman are humans too. They like getting approached as much as you would like it if a girl approached you. Once you realize that approaching women ain't too bad, go from asking time to more suitable situational openers like "What kinds of stuff do they do in here?" Maybe you are in an event or something. Just start casual and from there, you have already broken the barrier between you and her. Situational openers do not cause as much pressure because to the women, it doesn't seem like your wanting anything from her. So naturally her defenses will go down. And from there you can be like "Oh, I was just on my way to xyz and this had caught my eye, that is very cool". Just talk casual and go on from there (but don't be boring and unoriginal). If confidence is something you lack, dont stress so much on it. Focus on 3 second rule, JUST DO IT. Don't think. Go in and ask for the time or ask something relating to the place you are at.

Remember to always be positive.

As a kid, if you ever had an experience of drowning, you know that it will implant that fear inside you for the rest of your life and you will never want to swim again. The same goes for approaching women. The longer you wait, the bigger then seed becomes. Crack the seed open and start approaching women. Remember the first time you drove a car? How hard was it? Now you can probably drive a car, bang loud music while eating a hamburger at the same time. The only way your ever going to get rid of this fear is to approach it and LEAVE the comfort zone. MAKE YOUR UNCOMFORT ZONES INTO COMFORT ZONES.

Kings become kings because they own a lot of land. They conquer over places that they are not comfortable with. They make their world their playground. Do the same.

Honestly, I have travelled to many parts of the world. I have travelled to places where cities were covered with millions of people walking in the streets. The world is just too big and you will probably never meet the same person again. Don't lose that chance to possibly have met THAT ONE GIRL. Do not think that just by losing or getting rejected by one female is going to stop you from getting a girl. If so, then you are emotionally weak. Do not take rejection bad. Think of it as feedback. Once you start caring about if you'll get the women or not, you have already lost. Start getting in the habbit of approaching the women NOT for the # but just to get in the habbit of not caring.

When you care, your conscious mind takes over. But the thing is, you want to train your subconscious mind more. That is what helps natural game at the end of the day.

Although these are just words coming out of my mouth, the only REAL advice I can give you on approaching is below. But if you decide to read this, YOU MUST USE IT AT LEAST ON ONE GIRL! So don't read it if you don't plan to. Commit to yourself right now. Tell yourself you will do this. Ok now you may read.

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"Excuse me do you have the time?"

*She replies*

"Ah.. thanks, I was just on my way to xyz(work? friends? family? anything) and thought I'd be late, what a relief"

*You smile* (This will make you come as non creepy and more! Be a happy person)

*She smiles*

"Well look, I goto be honest with you. The real reason I asked you for the time was because you look like someone I should get to know.. and I'd hate to miss out on such a wonderful opportunity to meet someone like you. I have to get to work now (Time constraint) but if you want... maybe we can meet at a better place and time where we can talk and just get to know each other".

~BAM~ I guarentee you you will get her # and a positive feedback. Think about it, it's genuine, full of fucking surprises, and you don't come off as a tryhard or a creep. She'll be telling her friends that day "Oh my god you wouldn't believe this, I was approached by this guy today and he said xyz". Girls like to be approached the right way. This is one of them. Since you read this paragraph, you must PLEASE use this at least once. For the sake of yourself... And then give me feedback. AND MAKE SURE, if it is a moving target, you move with her, but from the side. And look over your shoulder. You want to be SLIGHTLY in front of her. NEVER approach directly infront where she knows or from behind (because that's just creepy and she'll have her defense on 10x harder). Never stop a moving target. If you ever walk to work, use it, it's very effective in meeting other (single) women who go to work the same time you would. Mail me your results. I 99% guarentee you'll get a positive feedback. I can only help you with what to say but the rest is up to how you say it and how you present your body language. DO YOUR BEST!

Likewise Fireball. I live in London and up for night game in London as I live in the area. Give me a shout and we can get some people on the forum together.

Cheers
Matt