I want to discuss this so said "fact" about women:

"Women don't need sex as often as men do. This is because sex is more physical for men and more emotional for women. Just knowing that the man wants to have sex with them fulfills the emotional need."

I'm more interested in hearing the thoughts about the last part...

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Not hating, but that sentence doesn't make sense, it doesn't relate to the rest of the sentence maybe you wrote it wrong?

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i think it makes sense, because the girl knows that the dude wants to fuck her, the emotional need is fulfilled. the physical act of sex is not required to fill the emotional need.

this may be true in a way, as if a guy comes on too strong or makes it at all obvious that he is sexually interested, part of that "i wonder if he wants to..." excitement and investigation disappears. then once the cat has the string, it loses interest.

but i dont think its limited to that. i think sometimes the girl needs some sort of affirmation.

good thought.

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I don't really buy this to be honest. Women like sex. They love it! They have vibrators, maybe two or three, and names for them. They masturbate as much as men do. They have long, drawn out fantasies about sex that can last 30 minutes to an hour when they're daydreaming or taking a nap. Hell, their bodies have an organ devoted solely to sexual pleasure, and they can have about 6-8 different kinds of orgasm!

The difference is that men value sex much more, because men are going out chasing sex all the time, whereas women are FREELY OFFERED IT the second they walk out onto the street, every day of the week.

If you're poor and starving and you finally get enough money to buy an ice cream, you're gonna be so happy you're eating something you won't care about the quality or the toppings or anything. Alternatively, if you work at an ice cream parlour and get as much free ice cream as you want, you'll be far more choosy about the quality, the flavours you like, the toppings that come with it, etc. If somebody came in trying to sell YOU ice cream, he'd have to offer you something truly unique and interesting for you to bother listening to him, because you already have more than you could possibly eat in a lifetime.

This is why women can be so much more selective, and why they need to have the emotional connection first before they have sex. It's not that they don't like sex as much, it's just the sex is already the plain vanilla she can get any day of the week from anybody, now what are you gonna put on that that makes the experience new and exciting for her?

This is also why only men who are getting laid frequently can also have the correct mindset of abundance, where they are screening women for personality traits that they value, not just trying to get to sex as quickly as possible with the most attractive girl they can find. Why being an AFC sucks so much isn't just because you're not getting laid as much as you'd like. It's because your mindset is to accept and try to keep any girl who is willing to have sex with you, regardless of all her other negative character traits and flaws. The rAFC knows to first screen for things he actually likes in the girl so that he could actually enjoy hanging out with her as a person, and then knows he can progress from there into a sexual relationship.

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It probably holds relevance if she doesn't have too high aspirations for the man's ability in the bedroom. Iow, if he resonates qualities of a 'typical' guy or of a man she's fucked that was 'alright' then she won't be as motivated knowing that he wants it badly from her. If, however, he does things no man she's ever known has done she's going to realize there's something different and will be anxious to experience it because she KNOWS it will be mind blowing.

I totally disagree Hobbit and stand by my original post.

Having expanded my game from exclusively night-based in bars and clubs to day game and internet game, I can assure you that most women enjoy sex just as much as the average man, they just want a man to be completely non-judgemental, have enough abundance so that they don't need to push for sex, have standards so that they actually want to find out about her and connect with her emotionally, and be able to take all the responsibility away from her and escalate in a confident and non-creepy way whilst keeping things light-hearted and enjoyable. If you can do that, ANY woman will sleep with you on a first date, not just your average club slut, regardless of how attractive, tall or wealthy you are.

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I think you are absolutely right I loved the first post btw.