I've always felt like "gaming" women was kind of not showing the real you. So I'm a incredibly nice guy to almost anyone. I feel good when I go out of my way to help others, not to brag or anything like that. I think women see at as a weakness. I'm not arrogant or cocky around the girl I really want to fuck, I'm actually very nice to her and I think its a turn off. I want to figure out how to attract her. she gave me kind of a flirty name and she often refers to me by it randomly in class and whenever I look at her when she makes a joke or something she does this grin. I'm afraid to text her and she doesn't text me that much. I'm not sure what to do.

First off mate, good on you, I know it can feel like shit, when your just nice, or you wanna do nice things, but no-one really gives a shit.



Nice Guy: You can still be nice, even if your in the game. But you cant be naive, or soft, ignorant or just plain stupid. You can be nice, but stay tough.
Dont be a pushover


And this girl, shit mate, go for it! Like they always say, make youself the prize, dare her to reject you. You dont have to be a dick about it, that can be a turn off for girls.

And your not supposed to put on a show, your supposed to show the best part of YOU

Hey Archon,it seems like she's doing what you should be doing:using nicknames,making jokes...

She seems to be the PUA whil you're the shy-non-social girl[no offense].

Just turn it around on her.

Do what she does to you.

Make a funny/cute name for her[not baby,sweet cakes...].

Great advise Kilative:one can be nice just not naive.

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Thanks for the reply guys. I think it would be weird that I'd just be like coming out from being the shy nice guy to just becoming that type of person. I've read up on somethings like suppose she drops a pencil I'd say "nice one" or something and smile. I think it'd seem like I'm trying too hard.

well archon, stop thinking. just do it.

and do it quick, girls dont tend to stick around waiting on shyness

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Hey Archon,that isnt "try hard" to bust on her a bit about dropping her pen.

I do think that'd be a lame-neg attempt though.

Shy guys dont get far like KristallNachte aid.

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I'm reading blues highschool PUA bible and afterwards I'm going to read up on DHV and negging.

Hey man,

It's cool to be a nice guy. You've just got to be a nice guy with some backbone. Have a little flair. Look, you say you want to attract her. Well, you're going to have to provoke that response somehow. Being sexual and slightly abrasive with your behavior will do that. You don't have to be a jerk, but you're still going to have to let her know whats up, and that you can tear it up in the bedroom with her when you want it.

Cheers.

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This is good advice.

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Thanks for the advice from everyone. I'm going to try negging a little tomorrow. I'm just kinda like scared to get involved in their conversation. I'm afraid to comment on it even though I'm practically in it.