this stuff does work. but it's important to work on your inner game

It takes enough time in the "field" (Horrible term; it makes the process of going out and LIVING EVERYDAY LIFE something that's of grandeur...)...

...to realize that yes, indeed, the "community" is indeed bullshit.

Don't get me wrong:

-Mystery, Juggler, Style, David D, and all other qualified "PUAs" (Or, I'll just simplify and say MEN) are not...the "community"

-100% of guys who get women on a daily basis and incorporate "PUA" skil...wait a sec...GENUINE PERSONALITY...are not the "community".


If anything, the "community" is 95% of the bitch ass twats who whine, bitch, moan, and dwell on pure negativity. I shouldn't be talking...I was in that category not too long ago.





The community is bullshit, because the "community" is composed of nothing more than bullshitters. As I said, I was in that category, but it took some good mentorship and self repair to realize what the issue is.


It's not about getting the girl.
It's about becoming the guy girls want to get.


Girls dont want guys chasing them.
They want to chase that guy who's got it.

I don't know what "it" is. I found "it", but I can't explain "it". "It" is different for anyone.




Long story short; stop kidding yourself. If you're part of the "community", do yourself a favor, and kill your ego. I can say this, because I HAVE DONE SO, and I HAVE SEEN 1000x MORE IMPROVEMENT OVER MY "GAME" OVERALL.



If you have to find happiness through fucking random women, you're a sad bloke.

If you feel that you have to run routines and junk movements to get the attention of a woman, you're a sad bloke.



It begins from within.

With that, that is as far as I am authorized to advise on my own plane. The beginning, which 100% of the 95% of the community suffers from, is merely a problem of ego.


You are not a guru unless you do what a guru does. You are not a PUA until you do what a PUA does.

I am not a PUA, nor am I a guru, nor am I someone who even gets at least 1 girl a month. I still haven't got laid since I joined this forum. Eventually, I will be screwing 10 girls a month, easy. It's a given, I speak and BELIEVE it as fact.

But right now, I'm dry, empty, and "lonely"...



And guess what? I don't give a shit.


Why?


Because I'm me. I don't need a woman to make me happy. A woman is there merely to complement what positivity I've brought to people.


But this isn't about me. You're reading this because you want to find out why the "community" is bullshit.


The 95/5 rule. 5% of the population controls 95% of the wealth, whereas 95% of the population barely scrapes 5% of the wealth. It used to be 90/10, but let's face it, this economy is stretching the fabric of mediocrity to oblivion.




Speak what you want, not what you got.

The "Community" is bullshit. Be an INDIVIDUAL.


The end.

If you dont like the community, then why are you even on the forum?

The community is awesome. I mean, the gurus and shit can be discussed but the real community, whas that? Thats US!

We are the community. If it is full of BS, then it is up to us to improve.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

I think the "community" is such a vague, ambiguous and too loosely defined a term for everyone to see it as the same thing.

I've been in and out of the game since '07. Reason being is, most of the stuff I read comes from young adults sarging women of the same age. I'm 39 and I clearly recognize that most of the routines can't be used on mature sophisticated women.

Sure, the main basic rules of thumb will apply to every situation such as EC, body language, DHV and knowing when to shut up. But, I'm not going to tell every girl I'm an ass model to see if she smiles and tries to grab it.

My point is, or question rather, is there a game forum to get women who are out of their insecure 20's?

Thanks for the quick response. I'll give him a look.

To denunciate an entire school of thought due to the faults of a few contributors is entirely ludicrous. I know that I have been more successful in my sex life since getting involved.

I'm sure there are thousands of other men out there that do. And to say that everyone that enjoys sleeping with random women is sad is ridiculous. In fact a study by the university of california found absolutely no correlation between happiness and promiscuity. If anything it was found that both males and females were slightly happier provided they weren't involved in any serious relationships and/or having an affair.

So before you say that the entire community is bullshit and 95% of people in it are sad.....get you facts straight.

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That is interesting. I would like to take a look at that study, I enjoy being single. I coined a phrase once to a friend of mine who found funny. "if she doesn't like me, well, that would suck. But, if she does like me, that would be worse"

Personally I like the idea of us all being a ''community'' ...got our own lingo...our likes and dislikes...a reason to come together...and we all talk about women and try to pick them up.

But I've never been good at sports so it could just be the need for a ''team'' in my life...kind like being a pothead or a Tool-head.

remember, some people whilst gaming are trying to select girls that they could have a potential future with while others are simply trying to fuck them. dhv, peacocking, FDQ are all part of the getting laid game.

also mysterys method is designed to get any women you want attracted to you, not to try your luck with a women, find out that you just dont work together, then go home pussyless. mystery wants to win the game every time so his method/routines are designed to do that. letting her do the majority of the work doesnt ensure pussy or even a future. mystery's method hopefully will.

and no im not a gigantic mystery supporter, i like many teachers, i just like mysterys ideology. David D said it best "attractions not a choice" and using that theory i wanna win, everytime

I do believe the whole inner game thing the OP said. If you don't believe in yourself, have confidence, and feel you are good enough for a girl, then it will show on your face and in your body language. The more you doubt yourself and fill your head with negativity, the more anxiety you will create. But, I do agree that approaching many women will decrease that anxiety. The more you do it, the more you will get comfortable and project confidence.

Women like guys who are confident and can make them laugh. And both of those things can be aquired and perfected. The best way to do that is to learn from others and to practice. The more mentally prepared you are the more confident you will be. As you keep approaching, the anxiety levels will drop, and then your real, outgoing self will come out and flourish. You will naturally learn to be quick on your toes and adjust to each situation.

Routines aren't a bad thing to have, but they can't be relied upon. They almost will always sound rehearsed and unnatural. The best thing to do is to make observations and talk about those observations. You need to avoid having tunnel vision. Open up your senses and awareness and you will always find something to chat about. The ability to improvise and make interesting conversation on the fly is key.

So to summarize, I think you just need to have confidence and be natural. And most importantly, you need to let it happen. Do not put pressure on yourself and force it. When you do that it's obvious. Always go out with the intention of having a good time and enjoying yourself. And that's really all you need to know.

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Tryna "Wife" Them Bad Girls

couldn't put it better myself.

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