Guys i'm new here.... In real need of help.... The girl i love hinks of me just a friend.... Once she said that she loved me and that she's all mine.... but then she caught me lying over things and she doesn't trust me.... She also had a boyfriend... she talks about him alot..... there were times when we used to talk for hours on phone, now she doesn't even call... we do talk once in a week, but just as friends.... she misses me, and sometimes i feel that she loves me, but she never says so...... once when her ex came between us, i din't talk to her for around six months.... she called on radio... she said that she was falling for me and missed me alot.... i talked to her and the same things again.... she just acted as nothing happened..... even her boy friend came back in her life..... sometimes it seems that she is more inclined towards her boyfriend, but then there are times...... now she is alone, we do talk in a blue moon, she says that she wants some one in her life.... she doesn't see me, right in front of her.... i've done evrything in my power to please her, going out of my way.... but seems i just turned into a wussy.... PLEASE HELP GUYS>>>>>

Hey bro,

I've been in almost exactly the same situation some time ago. And I don't need to tell you that this is really bad for your health, you know that already right?

This girl is just playing you. She might not even be fully aware of it. She uses you as some sort of rebound. Whenever she feels down, she has you to tell her you love her and you want her, and all she has to do is to tell you she loves you for you to come running to her. When she feels acknowledged again, she doesnt need you anymore.
Yes, yes you have. It's time to man the fuck up now. Do you need this in your life? Do you need to be played like this? Get fucked over, over and over again? I've had a girl like this in my life for 3 years. 3 fucking years I've wasted on her. I thought she was the one. Whatever girl I met, they didn't measure up to her. But after being messed around with for too long, I said: "Fuck you, I don't need this shit anymore, you used me for the last time, goodbye." And I blocked her on every communication-medium possible. I played the field for a while, found girls way better than her and then I found my current girlfriend and let me tell you, I really, really regret wasting all that time on my one-itis.

Please man, don't waste any more time on her, and move the fuck on. In time you will find out she's nothing special, and there are better girls than her, girls that won't use you like she did.

I wish you the best of luck.

Chillburg

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