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PostPosted: Sat Aug 21, 2010 5:07 pm 
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She won't know your a virgin trust in that,it's not as if she has had ten years of sexual partners behind her.

There are very few absolutes in pick up but this is one.........

When a girl asks who or how many people you have slept with always reply
"I don't kiss and tell" Consider the questions ; "how many girls have you slept with" or "who have you slept with?" why do they require this information?for what purpose?

Let's rephrase into what they actually mean,all they want to know is "if I have sex with you will my or your friends find out about it,because as a woman there is a social stigma within my peer group and in society,and my integrity and hence value will drop within the group if this doesn't work out".


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I agree! And when she says something like that I would take it as a huge hint.


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Come on - say it!
You gonna mess up if you don't tell her.
She likes virgins!
Seriously - being a virgin is no biggie!

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Just say "its been awhile" :lol:


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BTW - yes we KNOW when its a virgin.
Or else he's a natural if we don't!

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thanks for all the replies guys, a little update here. A few days ago we were on the subject again and she mentioned that she would actually prefer that i were a virgin. Looking back on it, this should have been the golden opportunity for me to come clean about the truth but I just ignored it and for some reason at the time i thought it was some kind of trap so she could prove i was lying about my "history". I feel like at this point, I've gone too far with the lie and it would be a huge DLV if i told her i lied.
There's a saying that goes something like "No matter how far you've gone down the wrong path, turn back."


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so you're saying i should just tell her the truth?

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so you're saying i should just tell her the truth?
What are you afraid of? DLVing yourself?

A man who doesn't mind letting the truth DLV him is a man of high value.


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Listen to Chief.

What is and isn't a DHV is relative. If you walk in to the club wearing a new crisp black tailored Armani suit, that can be a DHV. Walk into the dive bar filled with rockers in leather jackets, and it's a DLV.

She's told you she PREFERS virgins. Even if saying you're one might be considered a DLV, it's a DHV in this case because you're meeting her exact preferences. You're also being HONEST.

As a general note however, you should have never gotten yourself into this position. You should have taken her inquisitive nature about your sex life as a MASSIVE IOI, teased her about it, moved the conversation on and started escalating right away. Women might not all prefer virgins, but they certainly prefer a man who does NOT go around revealing how many sexual partners they've had. She feels like just one of your numbers and that her reputation might be in jeopardy if she does sleep with you. This means you haven't qualified properly by showing her that you care about aspects of her personality that make her special to you, and you've engaged her ASD. Big no no.


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Chances are she is a virgin too. A true person who lost his/her virginity, never discusses the specifics of their sex life such as putting the virgins into one statistic, and the non-virgins into another.
True that. Especially when you take their ages into consideration. She wants you to see her in a sexual light, so she thinks that by appearing experienced you will want her.

Don't tell her you're a virgin. A blatant attempt to conceal your inexperience would definitely be a DLV. Instead watch a little porn, pick up a few tricks, and maybe have a glass of wine before you go.


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Keep it to yourself, It's no one Else's businesses like people have said, Also keep it a mystery girls love that. So do us guys.


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i tell girls im a virgin all the time, if they don't get the hint, i tell them it doesn't matter, roll over and go to sleep after the deed

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OH NONONONONOO!!!!

NO!

Don't listen to them!!!!!!

Never admit the truth after lying in the first place! This is the ultimate self humiliation! Once you lied about something, stick with it no matter what! Once you've set the "image" for yourself, you just have to stick with it. Otherwise if others find out, you won't be forgiven... no one will trust you anymore.

Trust me, I know what I'm talking about. I've been in your shoes more than once.

It's always better to be "busted" and caught, rather then admitting it all by yourself. At least after you're busted you have some of your honor left. If you caught out everything out of the blue you seem weak and insecure.

You choose to tell her that you are sexually experienced. Now stick with it! If I were you I'd start learning everything about sex...

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My wife and I are swingers and we are frequently asked by new couples how many other couples we have been with. here are some things we have learned

NEVER ASK NOR DIVULGE NUMBERS! EVER! No matter what your score is, it will always come back and haunt you if you tell someone.

Here's how to handle it.

(She) how many girls have you been with?

(you) People aren't numbers and that just isn't the kind of thing I think about. I don't keep score.

(She) no, c'mon. Have you been with quite a few girls or are you inexperienced?

(You) You see, there is the problem. If I say 1 person too many you will think I am slutty or a player. If I say one person too few you will think I am a pussy. I AM NIETHER OF THOSE THINGS.

If she doesn't drop the subject at that point act insulted and say, " you must have me confused with some other kind of person, I'm not like that" and walk away and do a freezeout.

She WILL come back to you and will respect your integrity. Doing this will show that you do not keep score (that she knows of) and will show that you will also not betray her trust if she sleeps with you.

NEVER TAKE THE NUMBERS TEST!!! The numbers test is designed so that you automatically flunk once you start to answer the question!!!!!


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if your a virgin this is wat u do ....... well wat i did ..... wen u do finally close her .... u fix a date .... nt as in datin ..... as in that day am free n so thats wen am gna com down urs or where ever you plan on doing her ....... b4 u go see her u simply jerk off ..... ul last longer by doing this..... like an hour b4 ..... wen u do see her ul get xcited trust me u will ...... i was sweatin with excitement ....... dnt start havin sex straight away play with her ..... take ur time takin off clothes ..... jus kiss her ... then the neck/i assume u knw wat luv bites are ? ..... then tits , dnt jus go 4 the nipples straight away / play with her .... tease her ....... then u move 2 the ovious destination ..... dnt jus go 4 it straight away stroke her ...... den start to finger ..... remember do evrytin slowly wen ur finally ready to fuk her bend her over doggy style .... finger her sum more , jus to locate her hole..... slide ur nob in with ya left hand .... n keep ur right hand on her shoulder ...

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