Ok so there is a new twist to this now and I am really getting frustrated and confused. I just looked on her Facebook and it says that she is in a relationship with someone. Should I be concerned about this? Does it mean anything? Would there be a way to get past it?

Should you be concerned? No. Will you be? Probably.

Does it mean anything? It means she's in a relationship, and more than that she is advertising it to her social circle. Which means it's probably exclusive.

Would there be a way to get past it? You're going to need to get past her, by allowing your desire for her to fade as you pursue the plethora of opportunities that life presents you. You have my sympathy dude, it's hard to really care for and desire a woman and not have her want you back, it's broken a lot of solid guys. I'm not sure how others experience it, for me it's always felt like being stabbed.

However, for each one of those guys that curl up and lay there, there's another man that stands up and starts putting one foot in front of the other. This is part of becoming a man, finding the strength and conviction to live your life with happiness and satisfaction in the face of adversity. I'm not saying don't feel what you feel, you can't, I'm saying don't allow it to consume you and snuff out the other feelings that are a part of you. The guys in this community that are giving you advice on how to 'handle' the situation are sharing valuable insight, if you're wise you'll learn from what they've shown you and apply it in future situations, but what they're not telling you, is that it's over with this chick. They can see it, and if they didn't before this post seals the deal. Nothing is certain in life, you may cross paths with this woman again in the future, but for now she's not part of your picture.

You're not alone in this, you can learn a lot from the people in this community, not just on how to pickup women, but how to start living a happier, more fulfilling life. One more thing, I promise you that it gets better, so if you feel raw, don't despair, just start by putting one foot in front of the other.

I just made a major topic about curing oneitis in the PUA lounge.

here is the link: viewtopic.php?p=386674#386674

Oneitis is something which holds you from succes, that's why it's highly advisable to get over oneitis.

Go check my post about curing oneitis, it will surely help.

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I'm blown away by the link you sent me. Thanks so much. There is just one problem to it all and that is that I am gonna have to see her everyday. She hangs out with my social group which contains some of the best friends I ever have currently. I don't wanna cut ties with them. There has to be a way where I can get over her and still be around her. Should I just tell her how I feel? I feel that might be a bit weird and uncomfortable.

I think the answer is already in your post: you're too dependable on her and her friends. So the easiest thing to say is: find new friends to hang around with so that you don't have to be with her everytime.

But again, I understand that it is easier said then done.
Of what I read, I have the impression that you're still in high school, am I right? Otherwise you wouldn't see her everyday. Telling her that you like her is a big social risk there, because girls talk. But as you might know, life is full of risks, and sometimes to you have to take risks to get there.

After I broke up with my ex, I stayed best friends for 4 months. During vacation, things happened, and I took a risk. In 3 weeks, we changed from best friends to having zero contact, because I broke it.

So go to her, make a move or declare your feelings. If she says the four most destructive words known to men "Let's just be friends", then say her politely that you can't live with that. Because for you, it's everything or nothing. Say her that you always want to be number one and you can't live thus as a number two, and that you are going to take distance from her. You feel nothing for just being friends.

You know what the good thing is about this? It means that YOU ARE IN CONTROL! Not her, but you. And that's what a man defines: a man should always be in control. It's you who have the choice, and who makes the decision. And if you do so, it shows her that you have a lot of balls. And coincidently, Women LOVE balls.
Chances exists that she will be trying to get you back. She will try to win you over again. But be cautious. Only allow her back in your life if she wants you in a relationship. If she tries to win you over to be her best friend again, then be hard and don't accept it.

If you take distance from her, then just have a lot of good time with your bro's. You should have at least a few bro's who are neutral in this situation and with whom you can do fun things. If your friends are as good as you described, they will understand that you're taking distance from her and they will continue to support you. Flirt with also more different women. You will see then that she actualy is not as special as you first thought. And if you are having fun and if you are flirting with different girls, she will notice.

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I'm actually in college, not high school. I think one thing I am gonna try to do is talk to other women whenever possible and then hopefully when I gain some skills, tell her how I feel. There is not as much of a social risk there if I do anything. The problem is that even if I wanted to have time with some of my male friends, she will probably join them. It's gonna be hard to make a new group of friends but maybe I should start. Maybe making her see me talk to other attractive women will make her jealous.

Well, if you´re in college, then it´s actualy easier because college is way bigger then high school and has way less hours of classes then high school, so you should be able to take distance from her and to choose when or wheter you see her or not.
I advice you to tell her first before you take distance instead of taking distance and telling her after that.
If you then want time for "bro's only", then she would understand (because she knows you're taking distance of her).
If there is not a big social risk as you said, I would do what I said in my big post.

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