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I met this girl, and have been SMSing and had a chat a few nights ago, but there's a problem. I'm still quite a novice and this girl seems to have better game than me!
Like the guys have said you haven't given alot of information; your saying there's this girl you've met but she has better game, thats probably true.
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She craves attention, and although I have been trying to give it
if she's desperate for attention which I believe most highly sexual people are, then by giving her attention and taking it away she will become completely interested, providing that the pain she feels from her need for attention isn't so painful that she needs to choose another option because your taking too long.
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it always seems like she is in fact in control of the situation!
possibly, its likely she's got other guys on the go and she can be a little less responsive than you because she's not as heavily invested. The moment you do get her attention I would try and close very quickly, and be forceful.
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Does anyone have any ideas for how to keep things fun,
make her come to your house and eat snacks and get drunk! don't pick her up, she can find her own way. that way your not needy, and it'll be fun! plus once she's stuck for the night sex is guaranteed. Then all you have to do is cat-string her some more and you'll have a relationship.
Believe that she is more needy than you but she is struggling to make adequate decisions in her life, shes experiencing 'decision paralysis' deliver succinct understandable opportunity and she will consider it, if its understandable enough she will rate it higher than other choices.
Vince Lynch
getmethegirl
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