All the time guys are asking "what should I do around women?" "How should I act around women?" "How should I touch women?"

This one simple technique answers all them questions...

Ask yourself, "If I was hanging out with a chick tonight that I have already fucked multiple times and that is crazy about me, how would I touch her, how would I speak to her, how would I act around her?"

Now, BE that way around all women. When touching a women, touch her the way you would if you already have had sex. That replaces the "accidental" kino (such has *accidentally* touching her leg) to just placing your hand on her leg if you want too. Would you "accidently" touch a chicks leg that you have already had sex with? Fuck no you wouldn't. You would just place your hand on it.

This technique of treating her just like you would if two have already slept together is powerful. Try it, use it, have fun with it and enjoy the pussy.

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this is really good man!!
*thumbs up*

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Not sure I agree with this. I was watching the show that was popular in Britain the first series (second isn't out yet) called Take Me Out, and on it this guy obviously thought he was a ladies man, and was pretty confident.

On the actual date, I noticed he kept touching her arm a lot and once even her leg. The kino wasn't fluid at all and I was sure she must've picked upon it. After the actual date she said she coudn't unerstand why he kept touching her, and she actually found it creepy. It reminded me of people on PUAforum who don't understand the concept of kino.

I've found (I am by no way an MPUA but my isolation to kiss at least conversion rate is pretty high during the day) that if you follow the GWM thing as a basic guideline where you gradually move up to it is a lot more naturaland the girl gets to say "it just happened".

So get to that stage eventually, but I would say not right off the bat. If you're in a pubthe girl will guess you might've had a few and are a sleaze, even ikf you're sober.

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I would act exactly the same as I would normally... Slightly touchy but nothing major.

I think a easier approach would be to not act like every girl you meet you've already fucked, but to treat every girl you meet like a younger sister or close friend. I agree that touching is very important, but if you go over-board it could really creep the girl out. Stick to light touching and teasing, after all girls pick up a lot on touching and even the simplest stroke can drive a girl crazy. Make the touches natural and in flow with the conversation. For example touch a womans shoulder when your emphasizing a point, or gently pull her wrist if you want to lead her somewhere.

I would have to disagree with this thread too. I would have to agree with gradually touching and not agressively touching right off the bat.

I know a few guys that did that and they were creeped out. I also, did that to a therapist and she got creeped out and started putting restrictions on me. So, it's not to be touchy touchy - they find that creepy and a turn off.

Touching slightly and make it seem like it just happened to the point where you are at the stage of fucking is a big difference. A woman has alot of erogenerous zones which you can touch like on the wrist, elbow etc... that will drive her nuts without touching her on the leg. I touched this one girl on the leg on my date and she never spoke to me again.

However, my last FR I gave this one girl a five and a hug which was fine because it seemed harmless. So, my opinion is to make it look harmless and gradually go from there.

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So your example of that TV series has no basis on what the OP is talking about. He's saying that you touch her as if you are confident, comfortable and act as if you're comfortable with her body and confident in the way you touch her. If the guy wasn't fluid, then he wasn't any of those things and that's why it didn't work. PRETENDING that you are those things doesn't work, which is why I don't personally support any structured game, as I consider it to be imitating, not being. To truly be those things that you are supposed to portray, you need to believe in them yourself and that only comes from lots and lots and lots of inner game work and self reflection over the course of years.

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I'm certainly not going to treat any girl I have sexual interest in like I treat my little sister. Thats very fucking creepy.

Just think about that....

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If a girl is getting creeped out by you touching her its because your doing it wrong. Either your putting way to much emphasis on the touch, maybe your showing some kinda weakness, hell...maybe you was just being creepy.

This has to be done right and when it is, its very possible. It sometimes takes a while to get it down right but hey, practice makes perfect.

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Touching should be done to show your comfortable more than it would indicate confidence. (Of course, by touching her, you display confidence, but it's not a "big deal").

OP is absolutely right.

I've mentioned somewhere that, as a verbal method of sexual framing, you should speak to women in a way that presupposes that you've already had sex. This "touch her as if you've already had sex" thing is in the same boat.

I think you got the wrong end of the stick there bro. I meant, don't treat every girl you have sexual interest in like a pornstar that you're just about to fuck. You need to build rapport first and make her comfortable and secure around you, kinda like a baby sister. I didn't mean go fuck your baby sister haha

I really like this thread, but i have one thing i disagree about(sorry warped )

Alot of girls are very social conditionized, and it is hard to break into that inner nypho so quickly, that is why ASD goes up and all these other imaginary factors. So my question is how do you make that sparrk of atraction artifically. Women cannot read your thoughts, and you can't read there's. They can read your emotions though, so that helps them find out what you are thinking. So yes, what do i do if a girl isn't completely comfortably sexual around me?

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Golden rule of game: She feels what you feel.

Are you 100% comfortable with your own sexuality? How you 100% comfortable with it around her? When you are, you will b surprised how much she opens up to you sexually.

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Your operating under a limiting belief. You can build rapport WHILE escalating like I have mentioned.

On a side note, do you know the absolute best rapport building technique? Its sex.

Also, you NEVER want a girl to feel completely comfortable around you (not until after you have had sex anyways) because there will be no sexual tension if she does. She should feel like you two might just fuck at any second.

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This is what i do, and it works really nice on inner game.