Hi guys

This forum is like a dream palace of helping and encouraging. Thank you all for being so kind.

These are a few thoughts that keep me from approaching women, this is what i think she will / would / might think when i walk up to her:-

1) what does he want?
2) why is he coming to me, i dont talk to random people like him
3) what makes him think i would be interested in talking to him?
4) why does he think i wanna talk to him
5) who the fuck is he to come just like that
6) excuse me, wtf are you trying to do?

i reckon that these thoughts reveal a weak point in my personality or the way i interact with people, but i cannot really identify that. Though, are these thoughts genuine? Are these thoughts all too pessimistic? What would be optimistic in such a situation?

What basically paralysis me is what will she think when i open her. Like i wanna know what will she think during the first three seconds of my opening her, cuz thoughts like above come to my mind and i feel like not doing the game anymore. basically i like to call it three second fear, and the fear tells me that the first starting three seconds are going to be so ugly that you'd regret it later on.

Are these thoughts merely excuses of fear of rejection?

All this keeps me from talking to girls. All I want to do for starters is to talk anyone anywhere anytime I want.

please shine some light on this.

i've seen many videos and this is how i think a women perceives a meeting with any pua, according to what I think is a women's point of thinking, especially if the girl is enchanted and captivated or somewhere close to this, that all these steps taken from opening to closing, just happened, like you were meant to meet her, like all this was un-intentional, like the knight with a shining armor on a white horse just happen to fall in love and sweep her away far far away. firstly, is this how it is?

secondly, is the whole idea to appear sudden, on the spot, out of the blue, extempore?

I’d like to know what you all think from what I’ve shared above. I would love to improve my short comings.

I will not answer all of your questions, but I will answer some.
First of all, your mindset and your beliefs ("What you are coming from") is very important, because she will take your frame (because your frame is strong).
If you ASSUME, it will go great, you have much better chances then if you ASSUME, it will go bad and she doesn't wants to talk to you. Why? Because you communicate that stuff with body-language and tonality.

So... what about removing the beliefs that do you more harm then good and replacing them with beliefs that will actually help you? I know, I know, it is easier said then done. In my opinion you can't really totally believe all of that positive beliefs before you actually take action and see it happen. But you can to some extent.
If you haven't done anything like that before, then stop ruminating and keep in mind to always think positive and not negative. Also write or find some good beliefs and read them as affirmations once a day or before sarging. I'm not a big fun of seduction methods of Ross Jeffries, but I find affirmations, positive state rehersal, meditations and that kind of stuff he teaches very useful.

What you've just said is so very true. I just researched more upon my questions and found exactly your answer. Thanks so much.

Once i get over the Newbie Challenge, I guess my AA would smoothen out.