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I have been wondering this for a while and now since the time is almost here, I gotta get this answered fast. I'm a clean guy. I do not drink or do drugs and do not plan to start. I don't care if other people do it or do it around me as long as I'm not somehow getting high or drunk. I have seen a lot of posts here and read the ebook Conquer your Campus which was recommended in a few places. That ebook pretty much expects you to be drinking. I just don't understand why they expect you to destroy brain cells.
Can I still get laid in college constantly while being 110% clean? Many people say that the PUA should be the person to go to for for pre-gaming but I want to follow college rules and not allow drugs and alcohol in my dorm room. If someone is doing an illegal act in my room, how do I tell them to stop and leave without being a buzzkill? Also, can I host other fun activities like a movie night or a game night on off days or during the day before people everyone parties at night? Could I offer good clean (by clean I mean substance free) fun and still be considered that guy that organizes things? Apparently the guy who gets the most in college organizes the fun but can you do it without the use of drugs or alcohol?
You can get laid staying 110% clean, but you cannot expect others to follow your lead NOR can you expect good reactions when you are trying to force your way of living upon someone else.
If you're gonna host a party, tell people it's okay to bring their own beers, but you are not drinking hence you won't buy any.
When you tell people it's a no-alcohol-fly zone, they'll just go to your neighbour who doesn't think it's such a big fucking deal.
You do your thing and you let others do theirs=the only solution that won't make you a buzzkill.
CHAT
