Hey Guys!! I've been rereading The Game by Neil Strauss and a I started to have a aching worry after reading about so many girls that were either married or had boyfriends going home or hooking up with PUA's. The issue that plagues me now is a general mistrust of women. There is a portion of the book where Strauss states how sarging can lead to lowering one's opinion of the opposite sex after seeing so much betrayal, lying, and infidelity. Im in the game to meet interesting people, build strong and attractive social skills and of course have beautiful women in my life, but what i really want is a good longterm relationship and surely one day a wife. Now i think to my self how can i ever trust a women. So im now deciding to reach out to the community for guidance and perspective. What do you guys think? - Ali

well i'm not an expert but it's reciprocal really. If you're 'playing' with a girl, she will treat you with the same mindset, although they're more prone to having an emotional attachment. so if you treat her sincerely, she'll do the same for you (unless you caught yourself the queen of all sluts, then I have nothing to say to you)

like you said after reading the book and seeing so much infidelity and all that makes you unable to trust women, on the other hand, if you were a woman, and you knew that your bf is a pua who can go around picking up whoever they want, do you think she trusts you too? I'm just saying. Logically it all makes sense, but it is hard to get over the emotional level of it. Chances are you'll get over it when you meet the right person.