Hey i met this girl about a week ago. Things were going well. But the last two times she has had guy friends with her and i bailed. The first night i ended up working too late and so she started drinking with 2 guys who she has been friends with for a long time, she still wanted me to come with them but i thought that would be awkward. The next night we were suppose to watch movies at my house... same thing happened worked a little later and the two guy friends dropped in to have drinks again she asked me to come run amok with them.

What the fuck?
Any suggestions what i should do? She told me to call her today but im thinking about holding back a bit. I kind of like her and she's a pretty cool chick but i don't know what the deal is here has anyone got some advice?

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Learning

i think you should welcome them, go out with them and show them tht ur charming, non-threatening and alpha, i think she wants there opinion

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beegy

Don't trip so much. Most women have male friends, and its super annoying when guys are intimidated or threatened by them. Show that it doesn't bother you and you will win her respect, and possibly some new friends too.

Hey thanks guys , really helped i was working to hard now i've pulled back

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Learning

Befriend and disarm the obstacles, meet them at least once and make sure you come out on top. (Don't alpha them though, in the early stages she won't hesitate to pick a good friend over a guy she just met, teaching them something is always a good way to go).

However, she obviously can't bring her friends every single time.