Oke , today i was with my freind at the mall , and i saw 2 girls one hb9 and another hb5.

so i thought of trying to approach girls with my freinds , to see if it works for 2 guys to approach , so i made an opener and went to talk to them .

ME : excuse me guys , i wanna ask you a question.

THEM : oke sure

ME : i need a lady's opinion here , my freind smokes and his girlfriend told him if you dont quit ill breakup with you , so what should he do ? ( it was a lie ofcourse )

hb9 : quit maybe ?

me : its hard for a smoker to quit

my friend: yeah i cant quit ive been smoking for a year and im pretty addicted.

me : we want your opinion as ladys what should he do ?

hb9 : we dunno

me : well if you had a boyfreind who smokes , would you do the same ?

hb9 : i dont have a boyfriend now , but i would have done the same * wiggles*

my freind : well my name is ..... , and his name is .....


me :nice to meet you guys ( with a gentle smile )

So i thought of doing something from MM

then i said : hey nice shirt , i just saw a girl wearing it

she didnt get it at the first time

then when she got it she was like : oohh , with an unstatisfied look

then she was like oke and left



so guys what have i done wrong here , and what should i have done but i didnt .

help would be appriciated

_________________
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

You know exactly what you did wrong. It felt very awkward didn't it?

It sounded like the neg was used in bad taste, she was clearly offended.

yeah , it seemed like this , but what should i hav done instead?

_________________
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

well you didn't spike up the convo. I'd neg/tease her at "we dunno"

But I think the main mistake was the approach. It's hard to tell because the deliver is very important and we didn't see that. Or maybe you just came across a group of girls that have been approached a lot and you weren't smooth enough. Hard to tell.