I haven't seen or interacted with Carlos Xuma a whole lot but I have heard great things and know he has a great following. Definitely check out his stuff if that's more your style!

Hey strategiez,

It sounds cheezy but you can do anything you set your mind to. It will only be a hindrance or impact you negatively if you allow it to. There are thousands of men out there that have disabilities, whether physical, mental, or emotional, that thrive in interacting with women. Keep your practice up and socialize and you will be great at this.

Hey Smilez89,

There are a thousand things that you can do without it seeming like you want her as a girlfriend, but what you do isn't as important as the frequency of when you do it. Whether you go bowling, go to a party, check out a concert or street fair, if you don't want someone to cling and to start thinking of you as a boyfriend, you have to limit how often to see them to only once a week. When you're hanging out several times a week and talking/texting constantly is when they mentally start putting themselves in the girlfriend zone. Limit your time with them and it will stay as casual as you want it to be.

Hey Double J,

I like this question because it is one I can relate to very well. I am a huge geek. I love playing little miniature games like Warhammer, used to play Dungeon and Dragons for days on end, have a huge collection of MTG cards... Needless to say, I relate.

In short, no, you should never hide your hobbies. Yes, having confidence in yourself and your hobbies is very attractive and you will often find that girls not only don;t mind but they think it is cool and want you to teach them about it. Everyone has their geeky hobbies. For every guy that plays D&D there is a girl that is obsessed with trashy reality TV. Everyone has their vices so own it and be proud.

Hey Crookedpich,

I love that you're working on breaking this down even further for yourself. It's great that you have your own thoughts and theories going on this. Going sexual is the phase that a majority of people struggle on so I want you to keep your train of thought going and see what you can come up with. Try to keep breaking it down and then post your findings and experiments.

This is great work man, seriously keep it up!

hey everybody i just wanted to say this is the place to get better i hope some of you got the ideas\learned mistakes and using them right now....

ok the best way using my Halo effect in a sexual way in the club is through dance floor game!!! why is it? lets break it down

we as humans started our communication in the begining of our Evolution using body language so if u want to connect to her lets say primitive fest using the Halo affect u need to use some other communication other than words to alter her sexual assumption about you (stop using NLP stuff to do that you're freaking out the chicks) so what is the fastest way and what is the safe way

the safe way is using adam fomula a lil bit comfort and Q and escalate on the dance floor in some sexual way and the Halo effects kicks in cus if u lead like a man!!! her on the dance floor she'll think about taking your geeky butt to bed.you are usin something called *Foot in the door technique with the halo effect to escalate to bed

*FITD works by first getting a small yes and then getting an even better yes.

the fast way ok now we're usin 2 things 1) pre selection
2)more pre selection lol

again she is seeing u with girls dancing with them(SP),the assumption cool guy who know how to lead the result Halo effect kicks in and she start to invest,then this is simple lock eyes smile approach then miror dance lead grind(btw ther is a really good dance move that u and the chick like going down and u can touch her pussy grinds with your leg and she is getting such a turn on) escalate NC in the middle. sometimes chicks will open you,they are grabing my tie or my hat, and they do that cus they like u,if she wont let u escalate thats cool go back start over and keep tring with small dance floor hoops.this called *Face in the door technique.

pre selection is not the only thing, you can go with mix grops show you are a great guy
you lock eye contect showing u the man and the effect wil kick in.

*First make a request of the other person that is excessive and to which they will most naturally refuse.
Look disappointed but then make a request that is more reasonable. The other person will then be more likely to accept.

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Hey Adam thanks for all the great advice you post it's really helpful to us all. Now to my dilemma.

I studied mystery method, and countless other systems, but i=I throw them out the window when I game. I suddenly go on instinct and start doing things i never studied or seen and they work. I have a natural game style, now my question is how do i stop so I can be more structured in pick up I know this sounds vague, but it's frustrating when you start just doing random things. They have worked, but I want higher quality girls and a relationship instead of lakes thanks. When you can answer buddy I'd appreciate it.

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Awesome, that makes sense now I've been looking at a lot of your stuff on pre-selection and I understand it now. I got thinking about it because a few other PUAs say that it is a waste of time, and that being surrounded by girls that don't seem like they want to sleep with you can be a bad thing. I've started to make more female friends and add them to my social circle rather than try and sleep with them. Those PUAs that said that are the ones that focus on one night stands, but that's not what I'm looking for anymore. I want to attract higher quality women, and I guess this is the best way to show value. My question is how do you get it to look like the girls are chasing you or are into you? Rather than being seen as the guy who gives the girls a ride in the car (a mate of mine actually had an arguement with a girl yesterday, they did use him just for his car, they told him so, poor guy lol), buys the girls drinks, or being seen as the gay best friend?

There was this girl I really liked, we'd been seeing eachother for about a month. First we spoke on Facebook, and before we met I told her straight that I was just looking for fun and nothing serious. After we met up for the first time she was really attracted to me, she kept telling me how she was glad she met me. After a while though she noticed all of the other girls commenting on my Facebook profile and she got jealous. She then tried to make me jealous with this other guy, and then when that didn't work her friend had a go at me on facebook (I'm 19, these girls are 17, I know this sounds pretty childish lol...) but I don't want to lose a girl like that again. Maybe she was a bit childish, but I must have come across as too much of a player, and hurt her feelings, even though these girls were just friends and I told her so quite a few times. She didn't trust me. How do you prevent this?

Hey Adam,

I get the perfunctory "You are my favorite PUA" out of the way. You are my favorite PUA. Simply Your material, demeanor, and overall approach to pickup and this community is empowering to people, like me, who want to be nice, sincere, congruent, and level-headed extroverted males. Thank you for all.

I've been in the game for a year and a half. There has been exponential growth in my social and general life. It's given me some of the best experiences of my short life (I'm 17 going on 18 in a month) I went from a socially awkward misanthrope freshman year to one of the most popular kids in school by the end of my sophomore year. I'm entering my senior year and was hoping you could help with some leaks that have sprung up in my game.

1. Getting girls to invest. Now, I've been working on this ever since i started gaming outside of my school. Since I am the one approaching and clearly the one keeping the convo going, it's hard to get the girl to invest the way i want. Needless to say, I don't like chasing or beating a dead set. Or perhaps in this case the feeling of chasing. I've tried multiple tactics (going personal, breaking rapport) I'm a good conversationalist so i don't usually run out of things to say. The only way I've seen girls really invest is through social proof and pre-selection which is not always something i have. This is because they do the chasing. My question is, how do you flip an encounter from you approaching to her investing/chasing?

2. Sexuality. I project sexuality pretty naturally, through body language (I'm touchy-feely) and verbally (I make sex jokes and like talking about sex seriously as well because it genuinely interests me). however, even if i try to mask it, the transition from comfort to attraction gets awkward or if i don't try and mask it, it might drive the girl away. Once again, social proof and pre-selection seem the only ways that I can do this.

The crux of this post is how to get girls I want without seemingly chasing them? Because that is inherently what I am doing when I want to meet a girl. My social circle is fairly solid but now I want to concentrate on the 9s and 10s in my life. I've tried re-framing encounters as not these but as I game naturally through force of personality it just seems like I'm trying too hard.

P.S. Love your Negative Attraction video. That's my next experiment in game.

,Samflynn

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Thanks for the advice Adam, it took a load of my mind.

All the best.

Oh, i do have one question that i myself and many others have not been able to confidently answer so this should be a good one for you.

If you live at home with your parents (me) what is a good way of getting the girl you have met to use there flat for some fun, especially a first night lay. (Im in uni if that helps)

Cheers

If you open well, transist well, and you have some good convo flowing, but then find either yourself or her under a genuine time constraint.

What is the best move from an indirect game?

And I'm not certain if you'll be able to answer, but from a direct game as well.

Thanks

Im happy to say im going to L.A. to do a bootcamp with Adam on Nov 12. Should Be a great time. Im a little scared but ill be ok

hi all！！

Im happy to say im going to L.A. to do a bootcamp with Adam on Nov 12. Should Be a great time. Im a little scared but ill be ok