Was getting with this girl, couple of dates that sort of thing. Went out together one night and she tells me that she has a 4 year boyfriend and shares house and mortgage with him etc etc. Anyway, shock. They broke up pretty soon after that and we were meant to meet up for a date the next week, sauna visit, sleep over and all the rest. Some steamy texts going around and then she pulls out at the last minute saying hers heads all fucked up with having to find a new place and that.

Me= pissed off and confused.

How do I get her to forget all the shit thats going on and get with me?

you COULD let her stay at urs till she find somewhere to stay. but thats pretty risky.

tbh though it sounds like shes hit a rough patch and finding a sleeping partner is pretty low priority for her just now. its a bit lame to make it harder for her to sort her life out just so u can get some sex.

your best bet is probably just to be either supportive or dont be involved SPAM, dont be an obstruction.