I just went out with a girl that I knew since junior high(we drifted a little bit). Were 21 now. It was just a simple coffee date. Conversation went very smooth, we chatted for 2 hours, but it was mostly fluff. I could tell she just was not attracted to me. How can I build that attraction, and avoid the friend zone? Can someone steer me in the rihgt direction?

I don't really think you can "build" attraction, per se.

Look - just don't be shamed out by your natural desires. Next time you see her do something that indicates you want to do the horizontal tango with her (touch, eye contact) or just tell her straight up - "I think you're really hot, let's do something about it." If she rejects you, she rejects you. There are 999,999,999 other women in the world.

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"can't build attraction?" if there is ANYTHING true about MM or PUA is that if you game right, you WILL build attraction and they have NO choice....

The first advice I would give is neg her, even if you have known her for a while, as well as show that you are good and VALUED by other girls...this comes through stories as well as just a comfort level that you do not NEED her....if you want more details, we can go into that...

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ofcourse you can build attraction , but dude be funny , leading , serious , abit of all

and try some fascination patterns , to hypnotize her and get her fascinated by you .

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Best way I find to avoid the "friend zone" is to escalate and remain sexual around the girl. Wussies (AFCs) generally do not ramp up attraction and they give up at the first sign of ASD or LMR. This is bad if you want a sexual relationship with the girl, in my humble opinion. What to do? Kiss her, isolate her, make love to her, etc... After you both bust a nut, then you can still be friends and lovers if you so choose. Failure to escalate and isolate though leads her to classify you as a friend... not a lover.

May all your endevours be orgasmic,
Chicoman

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