Hey guys,

Was out on Friday night and had such a good time (number closed 4 girls) and one of the girls was this really hot HB9 indie chick who was stunning with a great body! I saw her looking at me and approached her and asked her what she was doing in the nightclub we were in and told her she was pretty cute. Number closed on the spot and then kissed her on cheek and said I would find her later.

Me and wing walking through dance floor and I feel a grab on my arm and it is her.. she starts dancing with me and then grabs my hand and takes me outside. We chat a bit outside and then I go in for kiss close and this girl is loving it and keeps asking me why somebody like me would kiss her. I kept reassuring her that I felt she had a good energy about her and she kept telling me that I was "incredibly hot". She then told me she had to go get some friends but would text me later so I said cool and then head back up stairs.

Got chatting to a few other girls and next thing I know she is back upstairs and grabs my arm and says "You move on quickly don't you." I smiled at her and she grabbed me again and started making out with me. She was easily one of the hottest girls in the club and eventually we parted and when I got home she rang me and told me she was back home and really liked me.. and that I should come and see her next week.

To cut a long story a bit shorter we have been texting (she text me in the morning first) and everytime she leaves a gap I try and leave a longer one but today we have txt quite a bit however its all a bit too friendly. She did ask me "Why were you obsessing so much about me having a bf" I wasn't I just asked her and then I replied with "Why were you so obsessive about me talking to other girls". She replied "oops". I did try and escalate earlier because she wants me to go out for her bday but I can't so I asked her to come mine for a party and she text back "Was that a really cheesy line or are you actually having a party".

Feel a bit like i'm going round in circles and she has just txt me asking me whats my favourite film :S. How should I escalate this further? I know she was tipsy the other night but surely you wouldn't tell someone you liked them so many times if you didn't.. but maybe she wants to be friends?!

Sorry for long post guys and hope you can help!

Reversal

Dude you had it!!

Don't worry I think it's recoverable. If anything just don't text for a few days then just call her if she text's you. Don't fall into a "texting" relationship. After a few text conversations start calling. Text only if you know she's somewhere where she can't be called.

She's showing lots of interest. At this point I wouldn't worry too much about the PUA stuff and just be confident and natural. However that doesn't mean being a wussy or AFC/nice guy either. Be interested back but not clingy if you know what I mean. As for going in circles, she's trying to figure you out and she's pretty good at it. You have to keep her wondering if you want to keep her interested but not so much that she "gives up". Be mysterious but not too mysterious if you know what I mean. It's sort of like push and pull.


Also you shouldn't have told her about a party unless you were actually having a party. She's going to start thinking your weird. Just go with the flow, you already did all the PUA work the night you met her, just take it easy and see where it goes.

the main thing here is to STOP TEXTING so much or your going to loose her interest fast!! trust me it happened to me. A little texting is ok (once or twice a day) but not entire conversations. Just throw an interesting text here and there like "I just saw something that reminds me of you" or something that will get her interested.

I agree with chaz in the general idea that you have already "got" her and don't need to play games anymore - just be cool and have fun - and yet don't be wussy of course.

But not so much in the detail - not fond of that "saw somethign that reminded me of you" line.