I'm writing this as a method for getting the super hot, super social girls with plenty of options and plenty of competition.

This is a social circle method for getting into relationships.

Have you ever approached a hot girl only to find that everything you say isn't resonating and you can't get past small talk?
Have you ever done well with a girl but not been able to get her on a date or talk on the phone at a later date?....

How to meet and attract...

Make an Impression - frequency of seeing you till she opens up to you - signals of attraction - isolate - escalate

Make an impression
First thing you need to do is get on her radar. She might be looking for a guy, she might be looking at you. This will get her on your radar easier. If she has a boyfriend she loves she might not even notice you, approach and make a good strong impression so she remembers you.

frequency of seeing you till she opens up to you
Hot girls with healthy social lives meet a lot of guys. She might not even open up to you till she's seen you a few times and accepted that you're going to be part of her life. At that point she'll give you the time of day and her "protection shield" will be lowered. Now's your chance to get to know each other so make sure you sell yourself. Problem with this is you need to see her again and again, if you have sort term attraction and this'll be easier, if you have long term attraction you'll have to come up with some other reason to see her (AFC Adam game) or go to the same places she does. If she's just become single or bored of her boyfriend you'll get on her radar sooner. Sometimes it's about waiting till she becomes single but if she becomes attracted to you she could become available sooner rather than later.


signals of attraction
Now you're on her radar and it's at this point she maybe showing signs of attraction. Look out for them but the only real sign you need is to see if she is making herself available to you. Test this out by isolating (either there and then or by arranging a date).

Escalate
Take it to the next level, get her back to your bed room, if she's into you she'll come. Then seal the deal.

This whole process is based on attraction. If you are a really attractive guy and she is initially attracted to you this whole thing is a lot easier and you require much less game. However there is a difference of short term and long term attraction

Sort term = good looks / style / confidence / physique / bad boy etc
Long term = treating her well, achievement, living an exciting life, protector of loved ones etc

With short term attraction you'll make an impression easily, you could even make an impression on her before you've even noticed her. She may think "wow he's hot". Then you'll be on her radar already and she'll open up to you the first time you meet. She'll show you signs of interest and be available for you straight away. The process I described above could take minuets. Not often the case for most guys with girls in high demand.

With poor short term attraction but good long term attraction it's a much harder/longer process.

N.B.When I say poor short term attraction I mean you're not on her radar instantly. It's poor in terms of how she sees you in relation to all the other guys that are trying to get her and how bothered she is in meeting guys right now. If she has a boyfriend she loves she's not really looking for guys and you'll have to be really attractive just for her to notice you.

So with poor short term attraction at first she isn't attracted/available to you, you have to approach and make some kind of impression. She might not open up to you as she meets loads of guys she's not initially attracted to and so not bothered about. You'll struggle to get past small talk, you wont really reach the hook and you won't be accepted into her social circle right away. You have to keep seeing her or bumping into her before she realizes subconsciously that "ok I keep seeing him here every Tuesday and he keeps saying hi, chances are I'll see him next Tuesday so I might as well find out who he is". This is when she opens up to you and invites you into her social circle. This is when she learns about you and if you are a sound guy with a lot going for you that you can't display on a first impression she'll start realizing. Her attraction for you will grow and she'll start giving you the signs that she is attracted. Then it's up to you to take it to where it needs to go.

Poor short term attraction means the process is a lot lot longer but it's the category most of us fall into when we're dealing with the most describable women who don't fall for guys on 1st impressions alone.

Poor long term attraction means she might fall for you initially and you may get her in bed but she wont see you as boyfriend material.

Good short term attraction just makes the whole thing so much easier and gives you so many more options with girls but for the best girls you have to have your image to a point where girls think you're gorgeous on first sight alone. Even then you'll need long term attraction for the quality girls but not as much.

Good long term attraction means you're boyfriend material and when you do eventually sleep with her she'll want to keep seeing you.

A lot of attractive older women have had their time falling for guys with good short term attraction and poor long term attraction (the bad boy jerk). They get so fed up of them mistreating them or doing nothing with their lives that they start looking to someone they trust like a guy with poor short term attraction and good long term attraction. The geeks revenge, loads of geeky guys who have succeeded in business or become doctors etc get hot women through being able to provide for them and through appreciating them more than the cool guys did.

So your aim is to open and make a good strong impression and try to get her to open up to you. Don't worry if this doesn't happen first time, it doesn't for most guys, you don't know her situation. Have a way of seeing her again, become friends on facebook, go to the same place you met her in she could be a regular, invite her to a hobbies you do that she could be interested in. Keep saying hi but don't linger till she wants rid of you, don't break her comfort zone. After seeing her a few times in a short space of time (perhaps a month or 2) there will come a time when you move on from small talk strangers to where she opens up to you. Now's your time to make a good second impression and take it from there.

Hope this helps

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