HB cancelled 2nd date per sms! what can I do now?



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PostPosted: Sat Aug 21, 2010 7:39 pm 
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Hi!

I´m 30 and she´s 18.
After some weeks of online game we met in a park for fluent conversation, kino, C&F and KCs.

All the routines and Rapport building worked great until someone stole her purse!!! :? That was exactly in the moment when we kissed... Afterwards there were some location changes and more KC and hugs.

After some days she cancelled the 2nd date per sms because she "wasn´t feeling good" :?: . I got the msg late when I was already at the meeting point... and I called her. She didn´t answer the phone and didn´t call back.

Should I contact her after a few days or not contact her at all until she does?!? :?:


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 22, 2010 6:41 pm 
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I need your PUA opinion guys! This girl is really hot! :D


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You should wait a couple of days, before contacting her. If you contact her right away you will be needy and "stalking dude".

When you contact her you should rush another date-appointment right away, just ask if everything is alright(not "why didnt you show up, bitch") etc.


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Consider the possibility of her being in a depressed state.. it isn't something that should let down your PUA spirit. She has turned the date down, not you. Just let her know that if she wants someone to share stuff with, she can come to you anytime. After that, just stay patient and calm and wait for her response.

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thx man!
You mean I shouldn´t rush another date-appointment right away, right?
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You should wait a couple of days, before contacting her. If you contact her right away you will be needy and "stalking dude".

When you contact her you should rush another date-appointment right away, just ask if everything is alright(not "why didnt you show up, bitch") etc.


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OP,

Dude she blew you off. She canceled the date via text message, then she didn't answer her phone? Yeah that doesn't sound very promising. I would wait at least 3 days before contacting her via text message BUT its ok to answer if she calls/texts you before the 72 hours are up.

Good luck cradle robber

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thx!

I saw her online, but I didn´t write. It´s been 48 hours so I think I´m gonna wait a bit longer... :?


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I saw her online, but I didn´t write. It´s been 48 hours so I think I´m gonna wait a bit longer... :?
Yes, wait another day or two. If she doesn't contact you at all just be prepared to move on because she probably already has....don't develop a case of "one-itis" and start following this girl like a puppy. I know its easier said than done...

As an aspiring PUA you should be gaming chicks almost everyday so losing this girl really is HER lose NOT yours.

Good luck in all future en devours


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thx man

Yeah, oneitis might be scary to a lot of people people because it´s risky.

Anyway, I guess I can´t lose anything if I contact her and try to game her again...


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thx man!
You mean I shouldn´t rush another date-appointment right away, right?
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You should wait a couple of days, before contacting her. If you contact her right away you will be needy and "stalking dude".

When you contact her you should rush another date-appointment right away, just ask if everything is alright(not "why didnt you show up, bitch") etc.
Yeah =)


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we were writing and today she throws at me:

"I think this date wasn´t such a good idea, cause there are some aspects of your person, I don´t like" :shock:

Any suggestions how to answer this? :?:

What about this answer?:D

"You know you like most aspects of my person a lot and that´s what´s confusing you"


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It shows she has developed repulsion towards you for some reason or the other. Move on or try to fix it, it's entirely up to you. (I'd move on though).

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I actually don´t have any idea what she means by "some aspects of my person" and I´m kind of curious.. :?:


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Shit test.

I could bet a lot of money right now that one of the aspects is your age.

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This happens all the time. Chick lives for the moment, that's how us PUAs take advantage out of it. But in the mean time, they are weird creatures that if we allow them enough for their logical mind to kick in, they will come up with tons of ridiculous reasons.
"Woman is like hot iron, gotta strike it when it's hot"


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