Me and this girl like each other and back then, she used to chase me. But we got into a few arguments although she still likes me. However, she's playing games now and going offline. I know she's just going on invisible so I asked her, "Why you going?" She said, "Because I want to." We all know that's bull, she's trying to get me to chase.

When she said bye, I asked her "why". Then she asks me, "Aren't you gonna say bye?" I said, "No because I don't want you to go." I know, it was lame on my part but hey, she used to be like me back then so I felt it was only fair.

But what should I do? Should I go with the sarcasm or should I just remain chill and mature as if nothing happened? How do I handle this to get her to be "chasing me" again?

I don't really know how your relationship is, do you see each other in real life too or do you just talk online? How often do you talk?

If you talk every day, just play it cool and block her for a day or 2, pretend you're busy, be interesting.

Whatever you do, don't chase her, don't jump through her hoops.

If you really want to meet up with this girl, tell her you're gonna be busy and not be able to come online that much. Tell her you'll be in her area in a couple of days and tell her you'll come visit since you're there anyway. If she's making excuses why you can't come then she's just playing with you.

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Aight, here's what I sent her as an offline IM:

fuck me. gonna be a busy. plus, save some weed for me Frisco girl

(she told me she bought some right before her little game) I live in LA, she's in SF. I don't even smoke

Question, what if when I come back, she doesn't send me any IMs? Or am I supposed to? Should I just not say anything until she does?

you shouldnt have sent her an offline pm, saying youre gone, otherwise shel know youre trying to get her attention on this fact.
My advice is ignore her for a while, she wont know what hit her if you do.

aight, i'm back online. I was wondering if I should make any status changes while I ignore her, otherwise she'll know I'm definitely available

My friend, blank it. Dont try to gather attention to the fact that you're going. Just disappear. This will make her wonder where the fudge you've gone.

I agree, don't make a big deal out of it. Use the time you don't have to use on her to get other women to chase you

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Ok so let's say I ignore her for 2 days. I come back. Do I still say nothing? I mean, what if she gets that feeling that I'm a douche bag and ignores me too? Maybe I should just pretend like I don't know what she's doing?

I switched my status to: Enjoyin' Lyfe!

Now I'm going to go on invisible for a few days, disappear. I think I have to do it longer than normal or else she'll think I disappeared just because she went offline on me and "I care".

I think that's a good status too, shows I really don't care and living happily with her offline anyways haha

We haven't been talking much lately anyways, only "now". So I think I should be invisible for like maybe more than a week. Last time I did this to her, I told her I could have gone online but I wanted to ignore her. So more than a week would be something unusual compared to how I gave myself away before

I got a pretty good hold of her as well. I drew her and wrote+sang a guitar song in the background of this video: http://www.typenot.com/ZL1BPEF0EGM4Z926ZR9JL.aspx

There's no way she'll forget haha

Here's what I've done with this girl: I have both succeeded and failed.

I have succeeded because I got the right reactions out of her. I have failed because I felt bad for her and I let her know what I was trying to do directly (what a dumbass).

It's like buying a car, and then crashing it right away.

My other way of failing was that I kept my "cocky" attitude on EVEN when I got her attention. I should have loosened up, but I kept it up and pushed her away.