So I worked my game from online to a date close, where he wanted to take me out to dinner. He picks me up and I'm impressed by his physical qualities, he looked like he just came from a page off of Abercrombie and Fitch. During the car ride and dinner I build comfort by finding out commonalities about him: school, hobbies, home. He tells me he's on this dating site because most girls in his town are highschoolers and since he works, he has little time to date. We bounce from the restaurant and take a stroll around. He notices I'm wearing heels and suggests I sit down and places his arm around me. Then he asked me "what's up? what are you thinking?" That is probably the worst thing you can ask a girl. I learned from Amanda that you should never NEVER talk about the future since it's a mood killer. I can sense he wants to kiss close me. We then head over to his car where he wraps his arm around me: I just get this sense of uncomfortability. We head to the park and go to the swings, where we talk fluff. Then he says theres lightning we should head in the car and suggests we sit in the back seat. This is where I feel really uncomfortable. When you don't build enough comfort and move to the sexual stage, the game is gonna end pretty short. I decided to try the Strawberry Fields routine to see how far his sex drive is: result was hes horny but doesn't care who he sleeps with and doesn't care what happens to her. He asked me again what am i thinking and kisses me. The kiss was sloppy, it felt like I was kissing a fish. Then when I pull away he tells me "You seem to know what you're doing... by the way I know this is random but I'm a virgin I was thinking to myself "who the fuck says that?" I was instantly turned off and the attraction just fell. He explains himself by saying he had one gf who cheated on him. I mean he did seem AFC but I wasnt sure if he threw in the virgin part for me to feel pitty and sleep with him or just so it can give him an advantage. I told him I wanted to go home and when he tried to kiss me again, I gave him a hug instead.

What I learned is: I will not tolerate with guys that are below me. The conversation made me feel like I can do better and find a guy that's higher quality. I don't need this shit from dating sites to practice game. I'm better off finding higher quality guys on my own.

Looks can be decieving. He was very attractive, but his personality didn't match his looks online and in person.

I will not tolerate kissing a guy in the back seat of a car. When he said "lets go chill in the backseat" I should have said NO. Instead I agreed and kissed a guy who slobbered all over me with a wide mouth. Merman perhaps?

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Out of curiousity what is the strawberry fields test?


Scamp

This is a game to find out some things about how your target views sex.

Intro: Hey, lets play a game!

Imagine you are alone in a field, and see a straberry field in front of you with tasty strawberries.

There is a fence/gate around the field. How high is it?
(= how easy is this girl/guy to take sex)

How you are in the strawberry field, how many strawberries do you take?
(=how many BFs/GFs that person wants)

Ok, after you have finished enjoying the strawberries, how do you feel about the farmer, who's field you took them from?
(=how you feel to that person after sleeping with them)

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RE: strawberry fields

It's possible that this is a good way to check, but if it is, the person should be thinking about sex or have thought about sex immediately before the game. Otherwise, it's as arbitrary as asking somebody something random and unrelated.

How do you reply when they ask you what it was about?

Wooah,

Random, especially since my family ARE strawberry farmers!

I wonder what that says about me, having picke strawberries all my life

Well I start by talking about my experience last week going to a local farm and picking your own strawberries. I try to paint a picture for them with descriptive details and usually by then I take that and change the topic by talking about foods that I like to eat to make them forget about the Straberry Fields game. Most guys are after sex and it gives me a clearer view of what they want out of the date and what their goal is.

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But I love strawberries and would have definitely picked them all but haven't had that many gf's....

Interesting . . .

I did the test as I was reading. There is no fence. Pick only one. (Not really into strawberries but more than that, it seems I am stealing . . . nobody misses one measly strawberry). And very thankful to the farmer . . .not just for the strawberry but for farming his ass off. My grandparents were farmers . . . lots of work.

In regards to the rest of the post. BBB, talking about the future is a mood killer if the future sucks. This "Amanda" must have run into a lot of losers. In fact, you SHOULD talk about the future to see what the fuck these dorks have in mind. The future and the present aren't too different. Boring ass future = boring ass present.

If you want to fuck whatever is in front of you, then by all means don't talk about anything and go for the kiss test.

It's ironic how the strawberry tests identify him as being horny and desiring sex and doesn't care about the woman who he sleeps with yet he tells the woman that he is a virgin.

perhaps he was being honest about him being a virgin and he just wanted you to know that he is not some kind of player.

especially when he said he was cheated by his gf.

he was trying to reveal a part of his true self and who he really is (his vulnerable side) to see how you would react.

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"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

Poor fella didn't know what he was doing. Did you tell him that that's no way to treat a woman, and suggested that he reads The Game or somethin' like that? Because what most guys lack is feedback. He lacks personal growth IMO.

Wow, so AFC. You ladies really have it rough out there. You should direct him to this site he needs it more than most of us.

As for the strawberry test...

1) Waist high picket fence.

2) I gorge myself on strawberries eating more than I can count.

3) There are plenty of strawberries so as long as I dont get caught I am not worried about the farmer.

What does that say about me? That I'm a horn-dog or something?...Yeah...I'll cop to that

OMG...I so hope that a woman uses this test on me!

1) What fence?

2) I run around grabbing handfuls of strawberries. I dont just eat them I shove them in all my orofices.

3) I run up to the farmer's house with handfuls of strawberries and force him to eat them at gunpoint...NOW TAKE YOUR CLOTHES OFF!!!!


Lol, JK

yah the strawberry test is a little um invalid. I remember listening to SINN's podcast and hear him coming up with it and i was like um "lame". lol


First you ask them : How high is the fence? How high they say the fence is : that is their wall on you.

Then you ask them how many strawberries they will take? to see how forward they (supposedly sexually dominant) are.

then you ask them about the farmer: to see if they give a fuck about others.

the strawberry test was also to break down one of the 16' sexual barrier or something. can't remember. heard about this on the video like about 1 month half ago lol.

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I'm still going to give it a shot anyway. It may, in fact, be a valid test but only if you dont know what is going on behind the scenes of course.

There are many instances where I've wanted to help a guy and tell him to read The Game. Then I thought to myself, what am I really going to benefit for it? I mean I myself am still learning about the game and understanding the true meaning behind it. Sometimes some things are better kept secret.

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