Ok so this chick told me "You're not my type" and whatever, but she continues to talk to and rely on me with stuff she should have closer friends do for her. Like she text me asking to pick her up if she got hella drunk at the club. And I have had covo's with her about us getting married (humorously of course). But recently she has been texting me about some guy she DOESN'T want, not really asking me what to do, but basically just telling me how presistant he is......So I'm like what fuck? Why don't you just tell him the same shit YOU told me?

She has told me she likes to make guys chase, but not exactly how.......I have no idea what she is doing asking me how to turn down a guy when she is a girl and I KNOW for a fact she has turned down guys before.....

Can someone please interpret this for me?!?!?!?!

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?

You need to STOP doing shit for her! Simple as that. You're not her bitch or gay friend, so end it!!!

Naw man I think she's fucking with me. Like I told her to tell him the same shit she told me and she completely ignored what I said.

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?

dude my oneitis was a chick who did the exact same shit, we even made a deal that one day if we never found the right person we would get married to each other. It was some FUCKED up shit man!...

Shes hardcore putting you into the LJBF zone, i was to blind to realise that because i was AFC, stop doing stuff for her and looking out for her unless your comfortable with being good friends and nothing more

She likes you, and she's testing you, the "WTF you want from me?" was a good respond.
She's BS you and possibly herself with all the "youre not my type" thing, thats how she's trying to make you chase her, showing disinterest (your not my type) and then showing interest (continues to engage you).
NOT TRUE!!!!
it's a disease really, any guy who had onitis will say it for a while after he had it, you can still be nice to girls, and you don't have to be in the FZ, anyway, I'm positive this is not a LJBF case, well not yet anyway.

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

Similar situation happens to me.

She tells she doesn't like you yet she leads you on by telling you about how there is this persistent guy chasing her and what she should do? She is referring to you as the persistent guy. and she ignored it because you couldn't tell that she means you.

here have a look at my post. it might help a little. girls and their mix signals.

girls-who-says-the-opposite-of-what-the ... 72727.html

I should really change that topic to "girls who don't really mean what they say and mix signals" now that i understand this behaviour alittle better myself.

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

Exactly what I had in mind when i wrote the above response. why didn't you answer my question when i asked a similar question like this? would've saved me the headache' . I'm disappointed in you.

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

sorry, didn't noticed the other post

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

Na man I'm pretty sure she isn't talking about me, because she is saying stuff that I never attempted or even tried for that matter, like dude tried to kiss her, he texts her repeatedly with out reply from her, he has two classes with her. None of these I have done or did or have. She normally texts me first, she freaking called me last night because there was a cock roach in her room "I need a pep talk" is what she said. She called me again the same day asking me AGAIN what she should do about the guy. I literally said. "tell him the same shit you told me" she COMPLETELY ignored that I had even said that. I don't know what she really thinks of me and its driving me INSANE.

UPDATE: Just got a text from her saying I think the guy finally got the hint that shes not interested, AND "thanks for being there during my roach scare" and one more thing.....she also wants me to teach her Jiu Jitsu, now if any of you are familiar with Jiu Jitsu it can get PREETTYYY sexual......

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?

You are in the EMotional Spank Bank.

Oh Okay lol.

"I don't know what she really thinks of me and its driving me INSANE."

for me, i just let my heart guild my feelings. From my obstacles with this girl who I have been chasing for a while now, i learn that If i feel that she feels something from me, then that is truth.

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

SO.....she called me again late last night. Because she was outside her house getting out of her car. I guess she was scared and just wanted to hear my voice. She started talking about how there was a condom on the ground, and I said oh my bad that was me, she said OH REALLY? You must have used a picture of me huh?
I just laughed and said OHH GOOD ONE!

But anyways I asked her why she called and were she had been. She said she called to ask about the first day of school supposedly. She said she came from her FRIENDS house who she claimed was a girl. But I know girls when they say they are with a friend it usually a GUY, and sure enough she admitted it when I presented that fact to her......So I told her

ME:what are you banging him and then calling me to talk to me?!?
HER: NOOOO I'm not that kind of girl, you know that.
ME: Uh huh, I have had girls break my heart because they said they weren't that "kind of girl" either.
HER: Well I didn't do anything.
ME: You didn't do anything YET.
HER: blah blah thats not me.
ME: Why did you lie and say you came from a girlfriends house?
HER: I DONT KNOOOWWWW

So yeah, I'm pretty much starting to think she is fucking with me.......

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?

"So yeah, I'm pretty much starting to think she is fucking with me."

Like I said. If that is what you think, then that is probably what it is. She is fucking with you + she has interest for you.

Ain't that bad of an equation.

For me, when I realized that the girl I was chasing was playing with my mind, I didn't mind that because it is all part of IT.

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"