If there is this girl who is still likes this other guy for quite some time now (let us say 1 year +?), how do we get her to like us even more than the other guy?

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

You don't.

You just find another girl. There is no shortage.

Forcusing all your energy on one girl is a losers game. Don't waste your time and energy.

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Women are smarter than you think... but not as smart as THEY think

What if you are not interested in other girls ? what if you've dated like 100 girls already and this girl is the one you've found and for some reason she is a lesbian, and she has some other guy chasing her (also for a very long time) ?

What do you do?

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

maybe your just gay? ..just a thought

Hell no !

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

If a girl is not interested she is not interested. How hard is that to understand? What if some ugly old woman was crushing on you? If you are not attracted to her there is nothing she can do.

You are still under the impression that one woman is different from another. This thinking can fuck you up. There is nothing special about this girl.

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Women are smarter than you think... but not as smart as THEY think

"If a girl is not interested she is not interested. How hard is that to understand?"

Hence I ask this question. It's a feat.

"What if some ugly old woman was crushing on you?"

This is too much to the extreme.

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

Honestly man.. there is nothing you can do. I know its not what you want to here, but its the truth.

All you can do is show interest. If that interest is not returned.. you say "next". Thats the difference between a PUA and a AFC.

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Women are smarter than you think... but not as smart as THEY think

"All you can do is show interest. If that interest is not returned.. you say "next". Thats the difference between a PUA and a AFC."

That's why people keep telling me I should just go find some other girls move on and when I get the skills to do it come back. But truth is somethings are not even possible with the experience you have and gain.

You may now be able to pick up many womans and get them laid and interested in you for a STR, but what's the use of that when you can't even use it to get what matters most to you at that moment in time?

There's got to be a way. That way is through witnessing how others have accomplish this feat in the past and learning from it to overcome a similar thing.

I asked a question about this, but no one answered (so I ended up deleting the post). I think I know the reason why now.

NO such thing as AFC. AFC knows what they are doing and why they are being AFC.

Only if i was AFC right now, perhaps I would give up hopes of getting her.

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

The thing is.. no matter how good your skills get, there will always be women who are not interested in you. There is no man who can have any woman he wants. There will always be a woman he can't have.

Skills will give you more options.. mostly because you'll be able to meet women a lot easier and faster than men with no skills. But having skills doesn't mean you magically get EVERY girl you want. Even the top PUA's get rejected. Its all part of the game.

You have to be realistic and know when to say "next".

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Women are smarter than you think... but not as smart as THEY think

Thanks. But what should you do if you have no interest for other girls?

You do everything you can to make your dream come true. Don't let opportunities past you. You only have one life. Once you give up, it is over.

I can't seem to find stories about a man turning a lesbian straight and spending the rest of their lives together. A little help with the search?

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

ask her what what she likes about him then associate that to yourself and you could try ross jeffries boyfriend destroyer

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life sucks and then you die! deal with it

I read this thread just now and find it a touch staggering but then again im a complete AFC when it comes to girls I actually LIKE and have an emotional feeling towards.

This could be a total sweeping generalisation here but AFCs tend to be more emotionally charged guys than the PUAs. A typical AFC is driven by his emotions towards a girl whilst a PUA removes himself from that feeling. Therefore when an AFC doesnt get the girl he wants it hurts alot more and therefore takes greater time to get over it.

When I read this thread, yeah the common sense answer is go out get some more girls, but in reality its very difficult to get over someone that you have/had an emotional feeling towards and even a connection. Its a bit like asking a guy, who has had a friendship with a girl for so long and all of a sudden its broken, to go shag more girls. its not that easy to get over someone and importantly if surely affects the motivation you have to go out and get some more girls. I think some may not be realising this and its so much easier to suggest go out fuck ten other women when its difficult to remove that emotional feeling and subsequently getting that motivation.

As I said this could be a sweeping generalisation but its my own view and take on things. Im an AFC with girls i like thats why I understand the original Posters question and understand why its not so easy to simply forget the girl in question.

here are 2 examples of boyfriend destroyer:

You're sort of seeing someone? As you're only sort of seeing that image of him in your mind, notice what happens as that image gets smaller and darker only as fast as an image of you and me being together having lots of fun gets big and brighter right there in its place.

Now as you look at that picture right there, doesn't it seem like something you really want. Oh yea, in fact, doesn't it seem like something that's already happened and there's no point resisting it cause it's too late to do anything but smile that smile of deep satisfaction and know this is going to be incredible. Oh yea, great, so when can I pick you up?"


or

Well, look I really enjoyed this, and I'd like to talk to you again sometime? Can I call you? You have a boyfriend?

Well, I have to admit I'm disappointed, I have to respect that you're in a relationship. But let me ask you a something. How surprised would you be to find yourself actually looking forward to spending a little time with me? I mean, maybe to the point where you could imagine us over coffee, laughing and having the best of time, and you starting to feel really comfortable with it? As you think about it like that, doesn't seem natural to meet like Monday or Tuesday for coffee?

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life sucks and then you die! deal with it

Yesss, I've looked at those the moment you recommended me the read on the website. Thank you !

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"