ok this is a long one and im gonna condence it as much as possible.

iv been hanging round these 2 girls for a couple of months now. i like one of them and the other one likes me (a lot). these 2 girls are best friends and have been for years.

anyway my fuck buddy started hanging round these 2 girls and it got complicated. the girl who likes me (lets call her emma) kept asking me out. we had been flirting but we are both flirts and i never thought anything of it til she asked me out.

so a few weeks ago id had enough of the situation and decided to put everything to rest. i told emma i was not interested, ended it with my fuck buddy and told the other girl i liked her.

after a weird text conversation and a lot of misunderstanding i came to the conclusion she would not do anything for whatever reason (she said she wouldnt cos of her best mate but never really said she liked or disliked me)

anyway i went to emma's daughters christening and it was a bad scenario. my FB was there not talking to me, and HB was there ignoring me too. cos i had told the friend i was not interested when she thought i was acting interested???????

this ended up in several emails back and to with HB about the situation (again)

anyway i backed off from the situation and have not seen them in a couple of weeks. i get a call from Emma today asking can i go and help set up the room for HB's party. i was invited weeks ago but not spoke to them so made other plans for tonight.

i went over and helped, HB gave me a kiss on the cheek for helping and i said i was not sure if i could come as i didnt know it was today. but would see if i could pop over before i went out.

i went but i took a mutual friend who i was going out with beffore we went out. my friend and the 2 girls dont get on. i text Hb and asked if my firend could come. which HB said was ok. i text back saying

"thank you, thats really appreciated, i take back all those horrid things i said about u.

there was a lot of SPAM and we left after 2 hours there.

i told HB i was going she just said right bye and walked off. then i got an ear full from another friend for going as it was Hb's birthday. but still left.

my question are. why is HB being so cold about me going.....

Wow - This whole scenario was meant to go wrong from the start LOL!

Have you tried seeing this situation from their point of view?
If you and your mate was hangig with this girl, and your mate really liked her and then she comes on to you? Would you do that to your mate???

Ofcourse she's being cold, dude! You left her ......
You can't leave! She's being like that, because she don't want you to leave. That's the girls game. If we say no it means yes, if we say right bye, it means STAY!!!
You did a bad move by leaving, and you made it worse when a friend told you and then left anyway .......

But it means that she likes you

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