During a conversation with one of my chick friends, she told me something that I found to be very telling about how many women probably feel these days:
A lot of men nowadays have the impression that they should seek relationships and that their lustful desires for no-strings-attached sex are politically incorrect and would scare women away. Too many men have become ashamed of their real desires, repressing them to the point of self-deluded denial. "I'm only interested in being in a committed relationship. I'm not interested in just having sex. I'm above that." BULLSHIT.

I would strongly argue that many many women would find it absolutely refreshing to be in the presence of a man who is shamelessly honest about his "shallow" desires.

Start paying more attention to what your penis is trying to tell you.

i totally agree i had a similar conversation with my brother and his girlfriend they wanted to know why im not in a relationship, and i replied that its simple id rather have sex with loads of girls rather then stick with the same one forever. if the almighty wanted you to sleep with only one girl your whole life he wouldnt have come up with other girls

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life sucks and then you die! deal with it

Here comes Mr Hobbit lol

That's because you only hang out with OGs

That's because you have no friends!

Hobb you have no friends

Actually I agree.

Almost all guys think that they are supposed to have relationships if the girl is OK even the day after. They wanna keep the good thing they found. And if the girl asks them if they are only interested in sex or a serious relationship 99% of all guys would immediately say relationship because we are supposed to say that.

IMO its BS!

I say it depends on the girl and the situation and on you. If the girls isnt awesome then you are just there to have sex, you might as well admit it.
I use to tell girls.
"Yeah, sure I can imagine to have sex with you but you should know that I have sex only if one of three conditions are met. 1. We both know whats involved, Im hot youre hot we like sex, lets have some fun, no strings attached. 2. We are in love. 3. Im sex starved."

Thats it. Then she knows. And, this is the way girls want it too, thats how they reason. They want both parts to know whats involved. They dont want a scene and certainly not problems. There are too many stalkers out there. Better be honest!

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

It helps your game to have that attitude also, I've found. A little sex, nothin serious, keeps your element of mystery alive, it makes you a god. A lot of guys have an embedded belief that if they don't tie her up and drag her back to his cave, he will never get pussy again. GAME KILLER. This doesn't mean you have to be a walking dildo, don't be a tool, but don't assume girls want relationships. If they want it, it will be obvious to even the most socially retarded guy. If its not obvious, she either doesn't want it, or she expects you to read her mind and my answer to that is: RUN LIKE THE WIND. Keeping it casual and having your game in tip top shape will bring these signals out much easier.

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The best PUA advice is also the best fighting advice.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ijCSu87 ... rn-1r-4-HM

I think that's just another kind of a nice guy. Every time you pretend as far as your feelings and desires go, you're being a nice guy (unless you're pretending to be an asshole).

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Women are plenty, time is not.

earlier this evening i had the same discussion with a ( female) friend of me.
she told me the same thing.
so it's my believe this post is a 100% accurate:d
i do tell girls that i'm into sex. but there is needed more than sex to get me in a relationship. that's honest. and they appreciate this.

i am gonna be an asshole right now, heres why i dont date, you take a girl to see a film then go to dinner and drinks, heres whats wrong with this scenario, you see a film you dont want to see and have to pay for it, take her to dinner and drinks you pay for get to watch her stuff her face and get to talk about shit you dont care about, All in the sad hope that she might sleep with you! in my ideal world i would pick up a girl sleep with her that night take her number if she is good at sex and arrange the occasional booty call then when im bored of her move onto the next one! before anyone says it i know i might as well hire a prostitute but why when i can get it for free!

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life sucks and then you die! deal with it

LOL "Dating is a form of prostitution, you just don't always get what you pay for."- Hyde That 70's show.

If you are paying for all that stuff you are messing up. I don't ever do that.

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Just another guy from back in the day.

Blogging again living life: http://www.Scienceofnaturalgame.com

so true haha

Bump: 763 viewers isn't enough.

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Do what you want. If you want a relationship, don't settle for a woman who doesn't. It is so weak to try to force someone into a relationship when they don't want one.