just got a message from a HB I have been talking to
"Hey, so im really sorry I havent called, there has been a lot going on..i hope ur not too mad at me:/ im coming to the party tonight r you going to be there?"

Hm... This is a tough one.

Don't answer her text. You also have a lot going on. Go to the party and ignore her. Hit on every girl in the room except her. I'll think it will get her attention.

Yeah man, what Bisquit said. Going to the party will automatically imply that you read her text (but wait, you may need to ask her for the address).

Anyhow, go to the party and do something along the lines of what Bisquit said.

I noticed something very interesting with practicing PUA techniques as an 18 year old. What we learn here, is like theory in driver's ed. Although the same principles apply, the real thing is just slightly different and may defy the techniques. There is one area where I would say at least 99% of everyone fails at. Body language. With the right delivery, hand gestures, tone of voice, facial expression, etc. A girl can be picked up easily without even having to apply most of the techniques.

In driver's ed, we learned to never, ever palm the wheel. Now after my license, me and my parents and everyone else palms the wheel without even thinking. Right now from what I can think, most peoples' application of the PUA techniques here is too rigid. *I* was too rigid, and still am in certain places (but getting more natural). We all keep focusing on at least GETTING a girl, but not on the duration of time of going to higher levels with her.

The PUA techniques are aimed at manipulating the conscious mind. Yes, this creates attraction, but is it to the full potential? The subconscious mind however, is what picks up the most minute details which in turn, affect the conscious mind. Most people just jump into learning what to say and do, but not how to say and do.

Man don't ignore her completely. Here's what I would do. I'd text her about an hour before going to the party, saying that I will be there. (altough you shouldn't let her wait more than 3 days to return the text, so if it's more than 3 days tell her the third day at evening hours). When going to a party, i assume she will come to you (since she wrote the text). You should be good to her, you know...you're happy to see her and then play some push pull with her trough the night and when you feel the time is right go to seducing stage. At least that's what I would do. But It's hard to say since I don't know the background.

Ok, I'm gonna give a serious reply this time.

She likes you. If you don't believe me, read the text over and over until you're convinced.

Which concludes to: Text her back and say you'll be at the party and you're gonna have a great time.

Then meet her up and party with her.

Period.

... oh and also, kiss her and get her into bed if possible.

Tadà

When she saw me she came up to me and gave me a hug, I was excited to see her and asked how she was. I didn't act phased by her text message, I asked her what she has been up to, she said absolutely nothing although the message from earlier said a lot has been going on. I flirted and danced with other girls tonight and later in the night she was sitting by me and my friend and telling me stories about her experience at the club the other night to add value to herself.

We made plans to go out on Thursday.

Good

I hope it works out for you!

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