A Venusian artist goes into the field night after night primarily to improve his calibration and to internalize his skill set. Hes not trying to "get this one girl", or to "get laid tonight". Rather, Hes practicing with the long term goal of having a powerful social skill set.

You cannot allow the outcome of any given approach to carry much significance. Its like playing a video game: if your man dies just hit the button and play again. If the outcome of any specific approach becomes important to you, it'll have subtle insidious effects on your game and cause you to lose the set. You really do have to NOT CARE.

JUST LIKE FISHING GOLFING OR ANY OTHER SPORT THE PROCESS OF PLAYING THE GAME ITSELF HAS TO BE ITS OWN REWARD.

Everything comes full circle. After some months of practice, when your game becomes tight, your skills will enable you to enjoy women in whatever way that you please. You really wont care about AA, rejection or outcome - youll just enjoy the ride. Ironically it is this very attitude that gets results.

Ironically there is a zen to pickup....the one who releases all attachment to a desired outcome is ironically the one most likely to realize that outcome.

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