| Quick intro: Whats up everyone, first time post but been in the community for several years now (2 of which were slowed by a recently ended LTR). Single for a few months now just started to get my stride back with my game but need some advice from the community.
Background: Went out to a bar a few weeks ago, was engaged in a two set (8's)and opened up this girl by asking for an outside opinon as the three of us in the set were having playful banter about who was tanner. The outsider (HB10 no joke) voted that I was the least tan which was obviously a playful lie, so I ejected the original set and negged her on her poor judging abilities. Ended up talking to her for about half hour, turns out this girl is a model, and a smart model at that she is a college student as well which is pretty much the holy grail of what I'm looking for right now to turn into an LTR hopefully. Eventually got a number close even though she flat out said "I'm talking to a lot of people, I'm not going to call you". The following week went out to the same bar, texted her on my way out to see if she was around did the whole reversing the pronouns bit in the text "maybe you'll run into me if your out" as opposed to "maybe I'll see you". She responds with a simple yes. No big deal, I'm out having a good time at this bar for a good hour or so and she shoots me a random text, the name of some bar. After about 20 minutes I walked over as it was right down the strip and I happened to bump into her. She was with a group of friends and they were walking away but i tapped her on the shoulder got a quick hug and she said she looked over her shoulder at her friends, before she could eject I told her that she should go follow her friends, she gave me a stunned look and then did just that. I get a drink immediately go to the dance floor hi-5ing random people and getting people to do the ridiculous jersey shore "beating up the beat" fist-pump. Dance with some random chick from Germany, all within eyesight of this girl I assume, I wasn't looking around for her. I get a text right as I'm on the floor saying come to this back room area. So I do, AMOG the guy that was talking to her and her friends and he quickly left. So I play a little gambit with her Silly Band bracelets, guessed them all right and got a quick kiss as my "Grand Prize". Sat down next to her, kino and into comfort building all good. They said they wanted to go up front so I took her hand and led her to the front with her friends, danced a bit then her friend offered me to walk them back to the car. On the way back kino the whole way arms around each other, must've looked corny but screw it, it felt good and was fun. Get a little better kiss at the car and she takes off. Texted the next day and told her I was going to take her out so we made plans for a date later this week.
The Situation: I have never gone about going on a first date in this fashion. I'm used to gaming at parties then I flirt with via text they come over, kindo yadda yadda yadda hopefully F-close. Thats been my model for the last 5 years or so which did me very well. However, this leaves me at a disadvantage here becuase I honestly don't know what to do about this first date. I already know there is attraction we kissed a couple times after all (she was sober, she is not old enough to drink I was slightly buzzed at this point). Should I Continue with CnF as I usually do, even though it might be slightly different now that I will be completely sober? Or go into more comfort building and find out more about her get her to qualify. Should I pay for this supposed "date"? Should I kiss her when we first meet up again or would that come off as desperate/needy. Lots of questions I know, but I also know that this is the place to come for advice on anything past the intial attraction. The logistics of it are tough as she lives about an hour from me, but for such a rare find I would honestly be willing to make it work. At the very least a second date would be awesome assuming she is as fun/intelligent as she came off the two times we met. Basically the point of this post is to search for first date protocol with this unique situation. Any advice from the community would be much appreciated. Thanks brothers![/b]
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