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| kilativ15 | PostPosted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 9:28 pm | |
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Posts: 167 | | Okay there's a girl on facebook i wanna start a conversation with.
Downside is I dont know well enough to start a random convo without sounding weird or desperate and i dont have anything particularly important to say either.
How can I pull it off opening one with her?
And just as an added after thought how can I imply an idea of a date aswell?
Thanks!
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| KristallNachte | PostPosted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 9:51 pm | |
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Location: Kintown, Okinawa, Japan | | Is this girl on facebook a friend? a stranger? a transvestite? a homeless person that gets online at the local library in hopes of finding a well meaning individual to rescue her from her own mistakes?
provide some info, and we can provide some advice. _________________ Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future
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| kilativ15 | PostPosted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 9:57 pm | |
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Posts: 167 | | haha sorry okay,
-I know her, but very little. We both go rowing and Ive spoken to her maybe 3 or 4 times a little.
-Shes the best friend of another girl whos friend i dated
-An affecting factor is that shes abou a HB7/HB8 so it might go to her head when talking to her
-She probably gets a shite load of attention which is why i wanna keep it subtle somehow :/
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| Apocalyptica | PostPosted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 10:35 pm | |
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Posts: 493 | | why should you try and keep it subtle?
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| kilativ15 | PostPosted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 10:39 pm | |
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Posts: 167 | | I dont want to be too upfront with the situation, as I said shes pretty and shes used to guys hitting on her, so shel probably have some sort of barrier up. Enjoy the attention but gives out blue balls left and right you know?
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| KristallNachte | PostPosted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 10:43 pm | |
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Location: Kintown, Okinawa, Japan | | yeah, but you don't have to say she's pretty (horrible idea to begin with) to not be subtle lol
7/8s are probably less used to guys being upfront, and if this is mostly starting on facebook, being direct is a useful thing, since contacting her in the first place is an SOI, and why would you want to follow up an SOI with disqualification? that makes you look like every other loser. _________________ Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future
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| kilativ15 | PostPosted: Tue Aug 17, 2010 10:45 pm | |
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Posts: 167 | | Hmm good point, my bad im new to this :/
So whats you advice? be upfront?
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