well this is a big issue obviously. ive have never been one to approach but i meet girls often as in classes and what not. i feel that i do show confidence, and cocky/funny personality along with the witty lines but i seem to push girls away. im not sure where im going wrong. i understand that im not goin to get every girl but i dont quite get why im pushing them away. i was hoping some one on here could give me some guidance/pointers or maybe help me figure out where im goin wrong.

Are you doing something to pull them to you? Coz if not.. here's your answer

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

what is your methods on pulling girls to you? i think im carrying the right attitude but lack the attraction aspect. any help

Pushing all girls or just some???

Maybe a rumor been spread about you ?

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

Do you escalate, if your alone with a girl do you make it personal, and later physical?
You can be as funny as you want, but being too cocky is good for parties not chitchat, you have to be personal she must want to know more about you, not just hear another joke

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

i know how to escalate physically but how do i make it more personal through convo?

Ask her what she likes to do for fun. Ask her about her hopes and dreams.

Its possible you are just trying too hard. If you are pushing girls away it must be that. I almost never push girls away and I don't even have the best game.

You just have to have fun. Flirt with them.. but be relaxed. Don't rush, don't obsess and don't focus all your attention on ONE girl. There are too many girls to meet for that.

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Women are smarter than you think... but not as smart as THEY think

You don't get personal until you've built rapport.

First focus on building rapport, then when you notice that she starts asking information about you, then you know you can get personal.

getting personal just by sharing a story about yourself. telling her about what you do. to build some sort of charisma.

if she gets personal too and decides to share about her story, then you guys have just built a strong emotional connection.

And there! a bond is now made. you've guys shared something that connects each other.

If she doesn't reciprocate, move on.

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

so today was my first day of classes and i saw a hb9. so i figured i would get the seat next to her. she seemed a little cocky, so i started up some small talk to get her laughing a little. but after a minute or two she still had her bitch shield up. she seemed to drop it some but not all the way. we never had a real conversation because of class just small talk. how would you go about it next class?

Do you make sure you're being yourself, not making any indirect proposals, not saying things which you expect her to "figure out" on her own and not being weird?

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Women are plenty, time is not.

so what should be my next step with the girl i just met that i posted about earlier?

you need to connect with them,ask them something and truly listen!you will be surprised!