How to Open In College:

Well we have tonnes of opener threads on the forums, and me being a college student, felt gutted that we don't have a thread dedicated to using openers in College only. Please post openers THAT HAVE WORKED and help the college community get laid

Here's a few openers I've tried:

In Class

On 1st Day of Class: "Hey is this (class)?" "Oh, ok great, thought I had the wrong room..... start convo."

"Hey, isn't this guy (prof) really confusing? I lost him when he said .."

"Hey, you look like a nerd, I don't really know anyone in class, wanna help me pass?"

A huge thing I've learnt about class is that if you are smart and social aka talking to the prof often (not too much/nerdy) you will automatically get comments from most of the guys around you and perhaps a few girls, this is probably the most easiest and best way of making friends in class.

At the Cafeteria/Student center:

"Are you in my class by any chance? (If yes then ask about class courses major meet up soon etc, if no then ask her "what you think I'm just flirting? haha anyways its nice to meet you, I'm (name)" *Always Worked for Me *

"Hey what are you eating? I haven't tried that before"

"Hey I've seen you somewhere, were you selling something on campus by any chance?"

"(Shout)THERE'S A RAT ON YOUR FEET!(point at girls feet). Haha look at you, so scared "

On a Campus Party (I don't drink and I manage to get invited and get numbers, and it's easier for drinkers as they have more options):

"Hey, i think im being awkward being the only sober guy, I felt like talking to you, I'm (name)"

"Hey so you having fun? I happen to know the host (lie if you don't) so if you're not having the time of your life i'll hook that shit up (haha)"

*If shes a real drunky* "So, you're drunk, I don't drink, is there a way I can have just as much fun as you? (Girl will usually laugh and then start talking you up, you just gotta keep flirting back, saying things like "Let's play truth or dare" and then immediately saying "I dare you to make out with me" and take things from there. This is college girls do anything if you are fun. *100% Success Rate for me *

Another 100% trick that anyone can use is, ALWAYS meet up alpha males when you enter the scene, just ask them their name, talk for a few mins ask them if their having fun. THEN PICK ON ANY GIRL YOU WANNA GAME, and ask her "hey so you having fun? btw you know (alpha male)? he's a real party guy I've just met him" and carry on from there. This ALWAYS works.

Problems you may face in College:

You were too awkward and too social in the beginning, the group you made now thinks you are creepy and everyone bitches behind your back (hapenned to me lol)

If you are in a hugeass college like I am (50,000), as hard as it may sound, just meet up with new people. its as simple as making new friends in class, joining new clubs etc. If you don't like that idea, then man up and talk to your first friends face to face and tell them you weren't aware of how much an asshole you were in the beginning. You gotta have that "I dont give a damn" attitude.

You are freaked out, 1st day in class, you don't know who to talk to.

THIS IS THE GOLDEN RULE: Your first friend in class should always be your prof. Ask wise questions, be off-the-topic a lil "So sir, how can I help you in return for a pass?" Don't be a nerd, don't be shy. after the class ends go up to your prof and be funny with him, girls will notice, guys will even come up to you and talk.

Can I get laid, have fun, get invited if I don't drink?

I am probably the most unluckiest person when it comes to college gaming, because I fucked up many social circles initially, I was too shy, and I don't drink. BUT drinking means nothing in college, seriously, it's all about having fun, drinking is one of the ways because anyone can drink and have fun. If you work on manning up and approaching girls without the use of alcohol, drinking will make a difference of 0%. Infact, check out my Party openers above, I use the non-drinking to my advantage.

People think I am too weak, I don't have that social dominance in college I had in highschool.

You've simple lost your balls aka lost your confidence. You are worried and freaked out, go out there and talk to people like you f*ckin own the place.

Am I a Pro PUA? No, I'm an ordinary college student who's failed at many things yet I've only learnt from. COLLEGE IS EASY. Seriously.

Post your problems if you have any here and me and other college people will help you out. I put this thread up after watching countless people post similar problems over and over again.

Oh and please, give me some feedback on my openers and solutions I've given, I appreciate .

"If you can't get pussy in college, then you my friend, are immune to any pussy in the world" - ImaPlaya

Nice first post there. I think this will help out guys who are unsure of how to do things in college.

If you haven't seen it already, there's a college thread in the general section university-college-general-tips-here-vt27052.html

Thanks for the post.. please share more openers to use around the campus.

Would also be interested to know how you from being shy went over being confident.. that approach/strategy can be helpful for many of us here for overcoming our insecurities.

thanks again for helping and sharing.

Clothing & Style in College:

Fitted. No lose gangsta sh*t. Before heading to college, most of us think if we wear our Yankee hat and wear them loose jerseys, girls will notice we've got the swag. To be honest, I've worn both gangsta jerseys and fitted shirts, and it makes a huge difference.

Obviously different people have different tastes, but fitted shirts make you look better, bigger and more mature. Maturity is very important in college, most people in their 1st year act like childs because they think it's just high school. College has old people, you need to start acting like an adult.

If you need help, such as what shirt size to get, what colour shirts, clorthing, dealing with unibrows, teeth, facial hair, hairstyles, body language etc. I will post youtube links here soon (dont have 5 posts yet) but in the mean while search for AlphaM Image Consulting on Youtube, that guy is the best and he will help you out with everything.

Ill post some more ideas as they come in my head

did u read my questions?

the_the I was once a shy bird and I know where you're coming from.

To bust out of my shell, I simply surrounded myself with outgoing, fun friends. They will basically mold you yourself. If you can't do that, do one of the many newbie missions out there. You gotta come in with the mindset of, "Fuck it, lets go!"

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HOW TO GO ALPHA IN COLLEGE - TAKE AWAY YOUR INSECURITIES
During my Freshman Year, I made a big, big mistake. I took my High-School mindset into college (I was alpha in highschool, I am still alpha in College, I can game anyone I want). This is a big mistake most of us make. When you step into college, no one knows you are an alpha (except a few high school friends you've brought with you). A big tip I advice here is start off Social. Do not game anyone in your first month at college or you will come off as a big creep, desperate, needy and girls will bitch behind your back. So infact, before you get any 10's in college, people already know you're desperate.

This was my case, I started off gaming all the HB9's and 10's I saw in college, they told me to f*ck off (literally) and I had almost given up hope (thought about transferring colleges). But towards the end of the year, I realised, it's all about social and value here in college. My college has 50,000 students, I knew I could easily meet knew HB10's and instead of gaming them, I'll just be a normal social guy, be friendly and meet em up like I'm their brother SOCIAL VALUE FIRST, PUA SKILLS 2ND. Have this mindset before you step into college.

From being Shy into Confident and Alpha.

This is probably the easiest thing to do in College. If you are seriously shy and don't know what to do, start talking to other shy guys first. In class, in your dorms etc. However, meet only 2-3 nerd/shy guys at first because if you start a "Shy Clique" you aren't showing off Social Value which I talked about. Meet 2-3 nerds in class, ask them how they find the class and shit, have 1-2 meals with them, that should be enough to boost your confidence. Next class, go up a level and meet up with dudes who aren't so social but chill around, don't have many friends. After that, go up another level and start opening up groups of mixed guys/girls. Do the same thing, ask them about the class, ask them for facebooks/msns have meals with them etc. By now you should be having lots of contacts (assuming you take many classes, repeat this process in each class).

Golden Tip: As I mentioned in my 1st post here, Always befriend the Prof of the class. This doesnt mean you kiss his ass by asking nerdy questions or shouting out "I did my homework". You have to be Mature & Fun in class. E.g. if the Prof says "So welcome to Psych, this class will be hard" you shoud out "Should we just drop it then haha?".

Remember, if you are still shy then realise what you're missing on, college is being social, succeeding, having fun, getting laid, all at the same time. If you are shy, you are missing out on everything.

Hope this helped.

In less than 2 weeks I will be starting my freshman year of college. Thanks for all the advice on this thread and on other threads. I will definitely try many of the things I learned. I also read the book "Conquer Your Campus" by Mark Redman which was recommended to me on a website. I will definitely be trying a lot of the techniques I learned. I totally understand social value is the most important thing so that is what I will focus on. I plan on approaching girls in the library, in the dining hall, on my floor, and hopefully in my class. School work comes first but I gotta find a way to get a real social life for the first time in my life. One that includes women as well as men who are there to benefit my life and allow me to benefit their lives. If I learn anything important or have a great success story, I will definitely post it on these forums.

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Good luck Shear!
Its really easy to get laid in college

I start the University here in about 2 weeks and I'm a bit worried. I've transferred from a community college after spending 8 years in the Army. I'm 27 years old so I'm a bit confused on how I should approach females considering the large age gap...I don't wanna come off too aggressive or I might be labeled "that old guy" (I look more 23-25 years old and probably a 7.5 in the 1-10 scale).

I know some younger girls will automatically be interested/attracted to me because of my experience/wisdom (so they say you accumulate it the older you get) but I need to find a balance. I think I will chat up as many HB7-10's as possible without being too aggressive...

Can anyone give me any advice on how I should calibrate my Game on Campus?

When you're moving into college confidence can be a problem; your out of your comfort zone, you dont know anybody, new place, new class, harder education, and most importantly its different lifestyle.


I've just posted something on confidence and having a PMA (Postive Mental Attitude) during an approach (or actually anything) can massively show improvement.

here-vp381789.html#381789

Hope it helps guys!




GrifterUK

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- You make your own luck

I couldnt agree more. I'm a sphmr only 18 yrs old, but EVERYONE swears i'm like 21 or 22. And its all bc i dress like an adult, and hold my head high. Last year i didnt and my age was obvious, but i completely changed my wardrobe over the summer and thats all. Now that school has started again, everyone (girls especially) is sayin i look so much older, but they cant figure out why.

The key is to get a couple of nice watches (sophisticated, not expensive), a few nice belts, well fit shirts, and straight leg pants. I follow people i see on tv, and Kanye West most of all. as much of an asshole as he is, he is still probably the most well dressed celebrity black or white.

i didnt mean to leave out that college girls are attracted to older guys. period. not saying that younger guys cant get girls at all, but why do you think its so easy for guys to get the freshman girls.

the way u dress is so important. trust me, yesterday was my first night back, and i had my choice between: two freshman, a sophomore, and two seniors to spend the night.

and also, i have three watches that i have spent a total of 38 dollars for. about 9 dollars each. they get soooo much attention, they honestly open for me alot of times lol. jus check out ebay or something. its not about spending money, its about working with what you have.