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I always ask girls what made them attracted to me. Every girl says the SAME thing;
"You're very forward...I mean...I love it. I've never met a guy who tried to kiss me within 2 minutes."
Sure, when I walk up to a girl I don't stand out that much. I dress normal, cool t-shirt and jeans, so I'm not some pea cocked freak. I'm not some club kid, I don't fake tan, and I don't have huge arms. I'm just me, but there's so much you can't see that separates me from the pack.
I've been through this, I've paid my dues. I don't go out 7 days a week and talk to 20 girls a night to practice. Instead I created a burning fire inside myself that left me with no other option than getting that girl. I really needed to figure out what I wanted. I've had 4sums, fucked porn stars, dated models, and had sex with sisters. That was never my goal, it just happened. I realized I just wanted amazing relationships with girls who were full of life and energy.
Sure, I still have crazy boat sex and pull girls into hotel staircases to have sex, but that shit just happens. I love kick ass people who live a high octane lifestyle like me. Life is too short to give a fuck, it's too damn short to hold anything back.
So when I say I separate myself, I do it by confidence, belief, and going with my gut. I know what kind of girl I like. When I see a girl that physically meets my standards, I get so excited to find out if she is as cool as she is hot. I have such a burning desire that there is no way I can't get her. She's mine, game mothafuckin ova kid.
When I see a girl I like I already know where I want it to go. I want things to turn sexual, and I want them to do so fast. Here's my basic outline;
See her, go over, say ANYTHING super positive and high energy, all while introducing myself. I could go over to her and say, "Hello", or I could say, "On a scale of 1-10 how hot is your ass". What comes out of my mouth is irrelevant. It's only how I say it. After that of course she's smiling and positive because she took my state, so I reward her by telling her she's cute.
Then I'll tell her to give me her hand, and that I'm super affectionate. I'll grab her hand, sit her down, lean up against a wall and bring her between my legs, of just move her away from where we're at.
Immediately I'll tell her something along the lines of, "Ya know, you meet so many people in bars. Everyone seems so fake. (While looking right into her eyes) Tell me something about yourself...what makes you smile?"
Then whatever she says, I'll say, "You know, that's so cool. I can totally relate to that...it's refreshing to meet someone who you can actually talk to in a bar." Then I'll just kiss her. I have a secret line that gets a kiss every time, but I can't give that out here. But really, she'll be so attracted to you at this point that it won't matter, granted you do this all like you believe 100% in it.
The big message here is that the conversation has to be a constant uphill climb. Anything that does not specifically relate to your outcome in mind is pointless and a waste. A basic conversation like this turns to sex a heck of a lot as long as you lead it 100% of the way. It's cool to be positive. It's awesome to be sexual. When you combine those 2 you become lethal.
None of this works with 99% belief, but if you have 100% belief you can go out tonight and have any girl you want. The only girl that would not like this is simply a girl you would not want to get to know. Go out tonight and use this, you'll love it!
T-Rex
Always remember, it is up to you to lead the interaction where you want it to go. She will never turn it sexual, even if she really wants to fuck the shit out of you. It's all on you. Every move must be a step forward; there can be no back tracking.
You remind me of Brucie from Grand Theft Auto 4. Which isn't really a bad thing.
Your method is so simple yet so damn effective. If only it was this easy for everybody to implement it.
It is important to learn not be afraid to go out and get what you want from life. Like you said, life is too short to worry about needless fluff, extra baggage and shitty details that bog you down and make you hesitate.
Do you want it?
So, go and get it.