Grew up with my nieghbor over the course of 10 years! We never ever talked in real life. She is 2 years younger than me and we just grew up out of sync. Was never attracted to her until recently - she's 17 now.

Anyways.. We used to chit chat on facebook, but today she randomly facebook's me and tells me she wants to go out to eat. So I take her on my motorcycle and we start eating at a diner.


She is constantly changing the subject when I'm trying to talk to her. I point it out of course and tease her about it, but she won't stop interrupting and talking about something random. Very figity and talkative.. (IOI or not?)

She keeps "moving" her hair around, but I never know if its an IOI or if it's because its in her way?

She ordered like a 6 dollar omlete and ended up eating like .50 cents worth of it. Probably 90% of the food was still on her plate, and she paid for my food too, saying how "she doesn't care because she has a lot of money at home" (IOI or not)



She did give me a hug at the end of the night and say she had a great time though...

For outside perspectives these may all seem like IOI's, but deep down inside I'm thinking that they are all just coincidences, but maybe thats the insecure AFC coming out inside me. dunno.

Sounds to me like she was nervous, she's only 17.

Am guessing they were IOI's, as she was validating herself ("lots of money at home")

Scamp

In my opinion, girls saying that you need to hang out is one of the biggest IOI's in the game, assuming your not in the friend zone. When a girl doesn't eat any of her food then she probably wasn't there just to eat. Why would she want to go out to eat with you if she wasn't interested? And when a girl tries to validate herself I think that's the point where you should just be like "this is too obvious". lol

Time Bridge and K-Close her. Simple.

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Typical teenager girl actions, no need to get frustrated over it.
If she's really interested, she will give out a lot more obvious IOIs.
Teenager mental state is kinda unstable, they tend to seek attention a lot:
1. She invites you to hang out --> possibly IOIs but it's not a strong one
2. If a girl is interested in you, she doesn't want to miss every single word you said, and she WILL NOT cut you off with random topic, this is where you demonstrate your alpha male value. Try this next time, while she keeps going on herself, tell her to be quiet as if you try to listen to the song (great to use at the mall), if she stays put, you're good to go.
3. IOIs sign is "playing" with her hair and clothes, not "moving"
4. If she doesnt eat, there are million reason for this: diet, bad mood, doesn't like the food, etc...
My advice is just keep it casual, be cool and hang out couple more times, look for more obvious IOIs before moving in for the kill. I gamed this HB9, she is 17, and believe me, teenagers nowadays are pretty sexually aggressive if she's into you.

She's young and still a bit immature, and gets a bit excited and silly when she's around you because yes.. she's into you